How do you typically feel when you see an attractive person of the same sex?

I rarely feel attraction beyond appreciation.

It depends on the person; sometimes I feel attraction.

I often feel romantically or physically drawn to them.

Have you ever had a romantic or sexual experience with the same sex?

No, and I don’t feel interested in it.

Yes, and I found it enjoyable or intriguing.

Yes, and it felt natural and fulfilling.

If you could have a perfect relationship, who would it be with?

I could be happy with either gender.

What best describes your feelings toward same-sex relationships?

I support them, but they don’t apply to me personally.

I feel open to them and could see myself in one.

I naturally gravitate toward same-sex relationships.

If someone of the same sex flirted with you, how would you react?

I’d appreciate the compliment but wouldn’t be interested.

It would depend on the person and my feelings at the time.

I’d likely flirt back if I found them attractive.

Have you ever questioned your sexuality?

No, I’ve always been sure of my orientation.

Yes, I’ve had moments of questioning or exploration.

Yes, and I realized I feel strongest toward the same sex.

Do you enjoy media (movies, shows, books) featuring same-sex romance?

I don’t relate to them much but have no issue with them.

Sometimes, if the story or characters interest me.

Yes, I connect with them deeply.

Which best describes your past relationships?

I’ve only dated the opposite sex.

I’ve dated both men and women.

I’ve mostly or only dated the same sex.

What happens when you imagine a romantic or intimate moment?

I picture someone of the opposite sex.

It depends on the situation; I could imagine either.

I naturally picture someone of the same sex.

Which of these statements feels most true for you?

I’m only attracted to the opposite sex.

I feel attraction toward both genders in different ways.

I’m only attracted to the same sex.

Kinsey Scale Quiz for Sexuality Spectrum

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10 Questions | Updated: Apr 01, 2025

Sexuality exists on a spectrum, and few people fit into rigid labels. The Kinsey Scale, developed by Dr. Alfred Kinsey, measures where you fall between exclusively heterosexual and exclusively homosexual. Are you curious about your romantic and sexual attractions? Take this quiz to explore your orientation and better understand where you fit in the fluid world of attraction.