Am I Happy In My Relationship Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 113779 | Updated: Jul 09, 2025
1. What’s the personal space like in the relationship?

Just enough
Sometimes I feel either smothered or neglected
I often feel either smothered or neglected
I either feel completely smothered or neglected all the time
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2. How does your relationship make you feel about yourself?

Loved, supported, and confident.
Generally okay, but I question myself sometimes.
Insecure or like I’m the one trying harder.
Drained and unsure of my worth.
3. Do you feel like your partner genuinely listens when you share something important?

Yes, they’re always present and attentive.
Usually, though sometimes it feels rushed.
They often seem distracted or uninterested.
I’ve stopped trying—I don’t feel heard at all.
4. How do you two typically spend time together on weekends?

We look forward to it and usually do things we both enjoy.
We sometimes hang out, but plans don’t always align.
We mostly do our own thing.
I often feel like I’m alone, even on days we’re free.
5. How do you feel when your partner gives you feedback or criticism?

I feel respected, even if it’s hard to hear.
I try to listen, but it sometimes feels tense.
I feel dismissed or misunderstood most of the time.
I feel attacked or like I can’t do anything right.
6. How often do you feel emotionally connected to your partner?

Almost all the time – I feel safe and understood.
Occasionally – it depends on the mood or situation.
Rarely – I wish we connected more deeply.
I often feel emotionally alone, even when we’re together.
7. Are you constantly looking at other people as potential partners?

Never
The thought crosses my mind, but I immediately refocus on my partner
Sometimes
Frequently
8. Do you know and act on each other’s love language?

Often
Sometimes
One or both of us has a hard time doing this
Not only does this not happen, but my partner often avoids using my love language
9. Do you prioritize intimacy, not just sex?

Yes
Sometimes
Not sure what that means
There’s lack of both, intimacy and sex
10. Do you accept each other for who you are?

Yes, definitely
Sometimes
Rarely
Never
11. Do you feel ignored or neglected by your partner?

Yes
Sometimes
Most of the time
No
12. How satisfied are you with your sexual relationship?

Very satisfied
Somewhat satisfied
Not very satisfied
Not at all satisfied
13. Do you find your partner overwhelming at times?

Never
Sometime
Often
Always
14. How do you feel when you think about the future of your relationship?

Excited and optimistic
Cautious but hopeful
Uncertain or indifferent
Worried or pessimistic
15. Do the things your partner does make you smile with joy?

Always
Usually
Sometimes
Never
16. Do you think that you love each other the same way?

Yes
Close enough
Not sure
Definitely not
17. Do you enjoy spending time with your partner?

Always
Usually
Sometimes
Never
18. Does your partner call you during the day to check how you are doing?

At least once a day
Often
Rarely
Never
19. Do you ever get the feeling that your partner might not even like you at all?

Never
Sometimes
Frequently
Nearly always
20. Do you feel like you can have a long pleasant conversation with your partner?

Always
No
Sometimes
Hardly ever
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