What’s Your Risk Of Divorce Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 1757 | Updated: Apr 02, 2025
What’s Your Risk of Divorce Quiz

No one walks into a marriage expecting it to fall apart. But sometimes... things feel off. Maybe the arguments have become more frequent, or the silence feels heavier than it used to.

You might be wondering, "Is this just a rough patch, or something more serious?"

This risk of divorce quiz is not here to judge—it is here to help you reflect—gently, honestly, and with care. Every relationship has its struggles; knowing where you stand is the first step toward clarity.

Questions Excerpt

1. Has either of you cheated in the past?

A. Never

B. Thought about it a few times but never gave in

C. If emotional infidelity counts, then yes

D. Yes

2. How aligned are your core values and long-term goals?

A. We disagree on major life values or directions

B. We are still figuring it out, and sometimes clash

C. We agree on most things and are working through the rest

D. We are strongly aligned on what really matters

3. How often do you feel appreciated by your partner?

A. Rarely or almost never

B. Only when I bring it up

C. Often, though I sometimes wish for more

D. Regularly—I feel seen and valued

4. How supported do you feel in your personal goals or growth?

A. I feel like my goals are not respected or supported

B. We try but often miss each other's needs

C. My partner supports me, even if we don't always agree

D. We actively cheer each other on and celebrate progress

5. How do you handle stress as a couple?

A. We turn against each other when things get tough

B. One of us tends to shut down or pull away

C. We try to support each other, even if it is not perfect

D. We face stress together and feel like a team

6. How do you feel about emotional intimacy in your marriage?

A. I feel emotionally distant and disconnected most of the time

B. We have moments of closeness, but they are inconsistent

C. We stay emotionally connected, but it takes effort

D. I feel deeply understood and emotionally safe with my partner

7. Are you with each other for the sake of family and kids?

A. No

B. Probably not, but sometimes it’s hard to tell

C. Somewhat

D. Yes

8. Do you both trust each other?

A. 100%

B. I think so

C. Not very much

D. Hardly

9. How would you rate the communication in your marriage?

A. Excellent

B. Very good

C. Poor

D. Very poor

10. How do you both resolve a fight?

A. We take time to talk deeply about the issues and come to a satisfying agreement

B. We avoid talking to each other till we cool down

C. We don’t talk about the issue for the longest possible time

D. It gets resolved after a couple of weeks or not at all

11. How does the age difference between you and your partner affect your connection?

A. It often causes tension or misunderstanding

B. Sometimes, we feel the gap, but we manage it

C. It is rarely a factor in our relationship

D. It brings balance or makes no difference at all

12. How do you feel about the balance of financial contributions in your marriage?

A. It causes tension or resentment

B. We sometimes disagree about money roles

C. We handle differences, but it takes effort

D. We are both comfortable with how things are managed

13. How sure were you about your intentions to get married before the wedding?

A. Not sure at all

B. Moderately sure

C. Mostly sure

D. Very sure

14. How satisfied are you with your partner?

A. Not satisfied at all

B. Moderately satisfied

C. Rather satisfied

D. Very satisfied

15. How satisfied are you with your life?

A. Not satisfied at all

B. Moderately satisfied

C. Rather satisfied

D. Very satisfied

16. How is your financial situation?

A. Very poor

B. Poor

C. Satisfactory

D. Good

17. Do you agree on the number of children you wish to have?

A. Not at all

B. Moderately

C. Just a little

D. Completely

18. How do past relationships or marriages affect your current one?

A. They still cause unresolved issues or tension

B. Some patterns from the past still show up

C. We have learned a lot from them, though some baggage lingers

D. They helped us grow and brought clarity to what we want now

19. How many alcoholic drinks do you or your spouse consume every day?

A. More than 3

B. 2

C. 1

D. 0

20. How old were you when you got married?

A. Under 22

B. 22–24 years old

C. 25–29 years old

D. 30 or older


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