Is He Playing Me Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 6346 | Updated: Jun 27, 2025
1. How does he react when you express your feelings or concerns?

He dismisses them or gets defensive
He takes them seriously and tries to address them
He's very understanding and makes an effort to improve
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2. Does he take responsibility for his actions in the relationship?

He blames me or others for problems and doesn't own up to his mistakes
He takes some responsibility, but not always
Yes, he acknowledges his role and strives to improve
3. How does he speak about you to others?

I never hear him talk about me, or it's in a dismissive way
He mentions me occasionally, but I'm not sure how he views me to others
He speaks highly of me and includes me in his life
4. How does he treat you when you're going through tough times?

He is distant or doesn't offer much support
He's somewhat supportive, but I wish he were more involved
He is there for me and offers real support
5. Does he make you feel secure in the relationship?

No, I always feel uncertain about where we stand
Sometimes, but I still have doubts
Yes, I feel comfortable and secure with him
6. Does he make an effort to understand your needs and feelings?

No, he seems uninterested in what I need
He tries, but it feels like he falls short sometimes
Yes, he makes a genuine effort to understand me
7. How does he handle disagreements or conflicts between you two?

He avoids discussing conflicts or gets confrontational
He tries to find middle ground and resolve conflicts
He communicates openly and works together to resolve issues
8. Does he show genuine interest in your life and activities?

He rarely asks about my life or interests
He asks about my life, but it's not consistent
He's genuinely curious and engaged in my life
9. How consistent is his communication with you?

He frequently goes days without contacting me
He's fairly consistent, but not always prompt
He regularly communicates and maintains the connection
10. Does he openly talk about his future plans involving you?

He avoids discussing any future plans
He talks about future plans, but it's uncertain
He includes you in his future plans and discusses them with excitement
11. Do you feel like your relationship is a mutual give and take?

No, I always feel like I’m trying harder
Sometimes I do
Yes, I would say it’s pretty even
12. Is he affectionate?

Only for sex
Sometimes he is, but I wish it was more often
Yes, most of the time
13. Does he make you a priority?

Not at all
Most of the time
Yes, I always feel that way
14. Does he bring you around his family and friends often?

I am almost never around his friends and don’t really know his family
Sometimes
Yes, often
15. Does he make you feel special?

No, most times, he makes me feel the opposite
Yes, sometimes
Yes, most of the time
16. Does he take you out or buy you gifts? Even if it’s something small?

Rarely
He does, but not always
Yes, he’s pretty good with that
17. Does he say one thing when you’re alone and then act a different way?

Yes, most of the time he does
Rarely
No
18. Is there some reason you think he stays with you other than because he wants to be with you?

Yes, he is financially or otherwise dependent on me
Usually, I don’t, but sometimes I question it
No, I’m confident it is for the right reasons
19. Do you feel like he is often deceptive about where he goes and who he’s with?

Yes, I feel like I never know
Sometimes he is shady
No, I don’t think so
20. When it comes to making plans, does he usually keep them?

He is always canceling plans or making changes last minute
Most of the time, he does
Definitely
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