1. Has the affair stopped?
2. Does the cheating partner still have secrets?
3. Is the cheating partner willing to answer questions related to the affair?
4. Does the cheating partner show sincere regret and remorse?
5. Is the betrayed partner able to control their rage and disappointment?
6. Has the talk about the affair taken over your lives?
7. Do you think you have rebuilt trust in your relationship?
8. How often do you do things you enjoyed doing together before the affair?
9. Does the betrayed partner play detective?
10. Is this infidelity the worst thing that has ever happened to you?
11. Are you willing to forgive your partner?
12. Why do you think the partner cheated?
13. How would you rate your relationship in terms of happiness?
14. Have you both survived tough times together before?
15. How willing are you to work on this relationship?