Am I A Good Partner Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 4433 | Updated: Sep 18, 2025
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Am I a Good Partner Quiz

Being in a relationship is about more than just love — it’s about trust, respect, effort, and emotional connection. Everyone wonders at some point, “Am I really being the kind of partner my significant other deserves?”

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re supportive enough, attentive enough, or simply a good partner overall, you’re not alone. Relationships thrive when both people feel valued and understood, but it’s not always easy to know how you measure up.

This “Am I a Good Partner Quiz” is designed to help you reflect on your habits, behaviors, and how you show up in your relationship. By answering honestly, you’ll discover whether you’re excelling as a partner, doing well with some room for improvement, or if there are areas where you can grow to build a stronger bond.

Take the quiz now to find out if you are the kind of partner your loved one can truly count on.

Questions Excerpt

1. How often do you actively listen and show interest in your partner's thoughts and feelings?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

2. How do you handle long-term planning in your relationship (future goals, lifestyle choices)?

A. We openly discuss and align our goals

B. Sometimes we talk about it, but not in depth

C. We rarely plan ahead together

3. Do you respect your partner’s boundaries and individuality?

A. Always, I encourage their independence

B. Sometimes, though I can be a little clingy or controlling

C. Rarely, I struggle with respecting boundaries

4. Do you show appreciation for your partner in everyday moments?

A. Frequently, even for little things

B. Sometimes, when it’s obvious

C. Rarely, I tend to take things for granted

5. Do you and your partner share responsibilities fairly (chores, finances, planning)?

A. Yes, we both contribute equally

B. Sometimes, but one of us does more

C. Not really, I often leave things up to them

6. How do you respond when your partner is stressed or upset?

A. I listen and try to comfort them

B. I want to help but sometimes get overwhelmed

C. I often avoid it or don’t know how to respond

7. How often do you take responsibility for your mistakes and apologize when you've hurt your partner?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

8. How do you handle disagreements when they get heated?

A. I stay calm and focus on resolution

B. I try, but sometimes I get defensive

C. I usually shut down or escalate the argument

9. How often do you support your partner's goals, dreams, and aspirations?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

10. Do you make an effort to express physical affection (hugs, kisses, hand-holding)?

A. Frequently, it’s part of how I show love

B. Sometimes, but not as much as I could

C. Rarely, I don’t focus much on physical affection

11. Do you feel safe being open and vulnerable with your partner?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

12. Do you feel like your partner can depend on you physically and emotionally when they need it?

A. Yes, and they appreciate it

B. Yes, there are very few episodes where I have disappointed them

C. Not always, my partner sometimes can’t rely on me as much as they’d like

13. Do you celebrate your partner’s achievements, big or small?

A. Always, I love cheering them on

B. Sometimes, when I remember to

C. Rarely, I don’t make a big deal out of things

14. Do you consider yourself patient and understanding when it comes to your partner?

A. Yes, of course

B. I think so

C. Not really, I tend to lose patience sometimes

15. Do you feel like you put effort into making sure your significant other is a priority in your life?

A. Frequently

B. I try, but sometimes other priorities get in the way

C. Not enough, I often get caught up in other priorities

16. Do you genuinely enjoy spending time and creating happy memories together?

A. Always

B. Yes, of course

C. Not really, it’s hard for us to enjoy time together lately

17. Do you respect your partner's emotions, even during sensitive moments?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

18. Are you open and honest about admitting when you are wrong?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

19. Do you and your partner maintain a healthy balance between personal space and time together?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

20. When you and your partner argue, do you work to resolve the issue instead of repeating the same fights?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely


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