Am I A Good Partner Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 4451 | Updated: Sep 18, 2025
1. How often do you actively listen and show interest in your partner's thoughts and feelings?

Frequently
Sometimes
Rarely
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2. How do you handle long-term planning in your relationship (future goals, lifestyle choices)?

We openly discuss and align our goals
Sometimes we talk about it, but not in depth
We rarely plan ahead together
3. Do you respect your partner’s boundaries and individuality?

Always, I encourage their independence
Sometimes, though I can be a little clingy or controlling
Rarely, I struggle with respecting boundaries
4. Do you show appreciation for your partner in everyday moments?

Frequently, even for little things
Sometimes, when it’s obvious
Rarely, I tend to take things for granted
5. Do you and your partner share responsibilities fairly (chores, finances, planning)?

Yes, we both contribute equally
Sometimes, but one of us does more
Not really, I often leave things up to them
6. How do you respond when your partner is stressed or upset?

I listen and try to comfort them
I want to help but sometimes get overwhelmed
I often avoid it or don’t know how to respond
7. How often do you take responsibility for your mistakes and apologize when you've hurt your partner?

Frequently
Sometimes
Rarely
8. How do you handle disagreements when they get heated?

I stay calm and focus on resolution
I try, but sometimes I get defensive
I usually shut down or escalate the argument
9. How often do you support your partner's goals, dreams, and aspirations?

Frequently
Sometimes
Rarely
10. Do you make an effort to express physical affection (hugs, kisses, hand-holding)?

Frequently, it’s part of how I show love
Sometimes, but not as much as I could
Rarely, I don’t focus much on physical affection
11. Do you feel safe being open and vulnerable with your partner?

Frequently
Sometimes
Rarely
12. Do you feel like your partner can depend on you physically and emotionally when they need it?

Yes, and they appreciate it
Yes, there are very few episodes where I have disappointed them
Not always, my partner sometimes can’t rely on me as much as they’d like
13. Do you celebrate your partner’s achievements, big or small?

Always, I love cheering them on
Sometimes, when I remember to
Rarely, I don’t make a big deal out of things
14. Do you consider yourself patient and understanding when it comes to your partner?

Yes, of course
I think so
Not really, I tend to lose patience sometimes
15. Do you feel like you put effort into making sure your significant other is a priority in your life?

Frequently
I try, but sometimes other priorities get in the way
Not enough, I often get caught up in other priorities
16. Do you genuinely enjoy spending time and creating happy memories together?

Always
Yes, of course
Not really, it’s hard for us to enjoy time together lately
17. Do you respect your partner's emotions, even during sensitive moments?

Frequently
Sometimes
Rarely
18. Are you open and honest about admitting when you are wrong?

Frequently
Sometimes
Rarely
19. Do you and your partner maintain a healthy balance between personal space and time together?

Frequently
Sometimes
Rarely
20. When you and your partner argue, do you work to resolve the issue instead of repeating the same fights?

Frequently
Sometimes
Rarely
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