Am I A Good Partner Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 4389 | Updated: Sep 15, 2025
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Am I a Good Partner Quiz

Being in a relationship is about more than just love — it’s about trust, respect, effort, and emotional connection. Everyone wonders at some point, “Am I really being the kind of partner my significant other deserves?”

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re supportive enough, attentive enough, or simply a good partner overall, you’re not alone. Relationships thrive when both people feel valued and understood, but it’s not always easy to know how you measure up.

This “Am I a Good Partner Quiz” is designed to help you reflect on your habits, behaviors, and how you show up in your relationship. By answering honestly, you’ll discover whether you’re excelling as a partner, doing well with some room for improvement, or if there are areas where you can grow to build a stronger bond.

Take the quiz now to find out if you are the kind of partner your loved one can truly count on.

Questions Excerpt

1. Do you feel safe being open and vulnerable with your partner?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

2. When you and your partner argue, do you work to resolve the issue instead of repeating the same fights?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

3. Do you and your partner maintain a healthy balance between personal space and time together?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

4. Are you open and honest about admitting when you are wrong?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

5. Do you respect your partner's emotions, even during sensitive moments?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

6. Do you genuinely enjoy spending time and creating happy memories together?

A. Always

B. Yes, of course

C. Not really, it’s hard for us to enjoy time together lately

7. Do you feel like you put effort into making sure your significant other is a priority in your life?

A. Frequently

B. I try, but sometimes other priorities get in the way

C. Not enough, I often get caught up in other priorities

8. Do you consider yourself patient and understanding when it comes to your partner?

A. Yes, of course

B. I think so

C. Not really, I tend to lose patience sometimes

9. Do you celebrate your partner’s achievements, big or small?

A. Always, I love cheering them on

B. Sometimes, when I remember to

C. Rarely, I don’t make a big deal out of things

10. Do you feel like your partner can depend on you physically and emotionally when they need it?

A. Yes, and they appreciate it

B. Yes, there are very few episodes where I have disappointed them

C. Not always, my partner sometimes can’t rely on me as much as they’d like

11. How often do you actively listen and show interest in your partner's thoughts and feelings?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

12. Do you make an effort to express physical affection (hugs, kisses, hand-holding)?

A. Frequently, it’s part of how I show love

B. Sometimes, but not as much as I could

C. Rarely, I don’t focus much on physical affection

13. How often do you support your partner's goals, dreams, and aspirations?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

14. How do you handle disagreements when they get heated?

A. I stay calm and focus on resolution

B. I try, but sometimes I get defensive

C. I usually shut down or escalate the argument

15. How often do you take responsibility for your mistakes and apologize when you've hurt your partner?

A. Frequently

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely


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