Where Do You Fall On The Aromantic Spectrum Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 11087 | Updated: Jun 25, 2025
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Where Do You Fall on the Aromantic Spectrum Quiz

Romantic attraction isn’t experienced the same way by everyone. Some people feel it strongly and often, while others rarely—or never—do. The aromantic spectrum includes a range of identities describing how someone experiences (or doesn’t experience) romantic feelings. From consistent disinterest in romance to feelings that emerge only under specific circumstances, every identity is valid.

Being aromantic doesn’t mean a lack of love or connection—it simply means that romantic attraction isn’t central to how someone forms relationships. Whether you enjoy the idea of romance or only experience it after deep emotional bonding, this quiz will help you better understand where you might fall on the spectrum.

Explore your feelings, and discover how you uniquely connect with others.

Questions Excerpt

1. How would you describe your idea of romance?

A. I enjoy conventional romance and its aesthetics

B. My feelings about romance fluctuate over time

C. I rarely experience romantic attraction

D. I only feel romantic attraction after forming a deep emotional bond

2. What do you feel about dating?

A. I like dating and find it exciting

B. My interest in dating changes from time to time

C. I rarely feel the urge to date

D. I prefer forming a deep emotional bond before considering dating

3. Have you been in a long-term relationship?

A. Yes, and I enjoyed it

B. No, because my romantic feelings fluctuate

C. No, because I rarely feel romantic attraction

D. Yes, but only after forming a deep emotional connection

4. How do you experience romantic attraction?

A. I find romance appealing, but I have my own unique ideas about it

B. My romantic attraction changes over time

C. I only experience romantic attraction in rare instances

D. I only feel romantic attraction after forming a deep bond

5. How do you feel about physical affection in romantic relationships?

A. I enjoy physical affection when it aligns with my unique romantic preferences

B. My comfort with physical affection shifts over time

C. I usually don’t seek out physical affection when romance is involved

D. I only enjoy physical affection with someone I deeply trust

6. How easy is it for you to develop romantic feelings?

A. I experience romantic attraction regularly

B. It depends; sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t

C. I rarely develop romantic feelings

D. I only develop romantic feelings after a strong emotional bond is formed

7. What is most important to you in a relationship?

A. I value the romantic aspects the most

B. My priorities in a relationship change over time

C. I care more about companionship than romance

D. Emotional connection is the most important thing for me

8. How do you feel about the idea of being in love?

A. I love the idea of romance and being in love

B. My feelings about love and romance shift over time

C. I don’t strongly relate to the concept of being in love

D. I only consider love when I deeply trust and connect with someone

9. Do you like being romantically involved with someone you like?

A. Yes, I enjoy romance with people I like

B. Sometimes, but my feelings about it change

C. Rarely, as I don’t often experience romantic attraction

D. Only after forming a deep emotional connection

10. Do you have a romantic partner at the moment?

A. Yes, I’m in a romantic relationship that developed after forming a deep emotional connection

B. I’m dating someone, but my feelings change over time

C. No, I don’t have a romantic partner

D. I like someone, but I don’t want to be romantically involved

11. How do I feel about romantic gestures like love letters or candlelit dinners?

A. I love them and find them very meaningful

B. Sometimes I like them, but my feelings change

C. I don’t really care for them

D. I only appreciate them in deeply connected relationships

12. How often do I daydream about romance?

A. Very often, I love thinking about romantic scenarios

B. Occasionally, depending on my mood

C. Rarely, romance isn’t a big part of my thoughts

D. Only when I have strong emotional feelings for someone

13. How do I feel about seeing romance in movies or books?

A. I enjoy it and find it entertaining

B. Sometimes I like it, sometimes I don’t

C. I don’t really connect with romantic stories

D. I only enjoy it when it reflects deep emotional bonds

14. How do I react when someone confesses romantic feelings for me?

A. I usually feel excited and flattered

B. My reaction depends on how I’m feeling at the moment

C. I feel uncomfortable because I don’t experience much romantic attraction

D. I only consider it seriously if we have an emotional connection

15. What is my ideal relationship dynamic?

A. Something full of romance, affection, and passion

B. A connection that evolves naturally, without set rules

C. A strong friendship without romantic expectations

D. A deep emotional bond that grows over time


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