During intimacy, do you prefer to:

Talk things through and explore together

How comfortable are you talking about sex with your partner?

Very comfortable, we talk openly about everything

Somewhat comfortable, but some things feel shy

Not that comfortable, unsure what to say

How often do you try new things in the bedroom?

We're always up for trying new things!

Open to trying new things occasionally

New things can feel a bit intimidating

Do you find it easy to express your desires to your partner?

Absolutely, communication is key!

Sometimes, I might hold back a bit

I find it difficult to express myself

How important is a romantic atmosphere for you?

Not essential, intimacy is the main focus

Sets the mood and enhances the experience

Can be a nice addition, but not crucial

Do you celebrate each other's sexual victories (e.g., trying something new)?

Absolutely! We hype each other up

We acknowledge it, but might not make a big deal

Unsure how to celebrate these moments

How comfortable are you giving and receiving feedback during intimacy?

Open to feedback, it helps us improve

Feedback can feel a little awkward

Not sure how to give or receive feedback

Do you prioritize scheduling intimacy, or do you prefer spontaneity?

A mix of both planned and spontaneous moments works best

Scheduling intimacy feels a bit too structured

How comfortable are you with physical affection outside of the bedroom?

We can't keep our hands off each other!

We show affection, but intimacy is a separate thing

Physical affection can feel a bit forced sometimes

Do you find it easy to forgive minor mishaps during intimacy?

Minor mishaps can be a bit of a mood killer

Mishaps make me feel anxious or self-conscious

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 53 | Updated: May 09, 2024

Feeling curious about your sexual compatibility? Exploring intimacy as a couple is about understanding and embracing each other’s desires, strengths, and areas for growth. This playful and insightful quiz invites you to dive into the dynamics of your relationship, uncovering how you both contribute to a fulfilling and compassionate sexual connection.