Love Vs. Limerence Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 7992 | Updated: Oct 07, 2025
1. How do you feel when your partner is unavailable or does not respond?

I feel restless, panicked, or overly distressed
I feel uneasy but manage to redirect my focus
I feel fine and trust they will respond when they can
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2. How do you see the relationship in your life overall?

It feels like my entire identity depends on them
It’s very important, but I also have other focuses
It’s one meaningful part of my life among many
3. How do you react when your partner succeeds or shines?

I feel jealous or afraid they’ll find someone “better”
I feel proud, but a small part of me feels insecure
I feel genuinely happy and supportive of their success
4. How secure do you feel in the relationship?

Constantly insecure, I worry they’ll lose interest
Sometimes insecure, but I can reassure myself
Secure and trusting of our bond
5. How do you handle disagreements with your partner?

I panic or fear they might leave me
I feel upset, but try to work through it
I stay calm and focus on resolving things together
6. How do you feel about personal space in the relationship?

I feel uneasy if I’m not constantly around them
I like being with them, but can also enjoy some space
I value both closeness and independence equally
7. Do you feel a sense of balance in your connection?

No, I feel like I am giving or craving too much
Sometimes, but I struggle to maintain it
Yes, our bond feels mutual and steady
8. How much does their opinion influence your decisions?

A lot—I cannot make decisions without considering them
It influences me somewhat, but I still prioritize my needs
Their opinion matters, but I make balanced, independent choices
9. How do you respond to their flaws or mistakes?

I tend to overlook or excuse them entirely
I notice them, but they rarely bother me
I acknowledge them and address concerns openly
10. Do you often imagine your future with them in extreme detail?

Yes, I picture every aspect obsessively
Sometimes, but I keep it light and realistic
Occasionally, but I also focus on the present
11. How do you feel when you're around your partner?

Like my heart is going to explode, extremely nervous and a bit confused about it
A bit dizzy, anxious, and excited at the same time
Feeling at home, calm, and happy
12. Do you catch yourself constantly rearranging activities just to spend more time with the other person?

Yes, all the time
It happens sometimes
No, it happens rather rarely
13. Is there anything that you don’t like in your partner?

They seem perfect, and everything they do seems just right
They have some bad traits, yet I’m in love with the rest of their personality
They have both good and bad traits, and I lovingly accept them all
14. Do you fear rejection from your partner?

Yes, I experience these intense negative emotions all the time
Sometimes, but the emotions don’t catch me off guard
No, I’m rather calm and confident in the relationship
15. Do you recall every virtual or real encounter with them in detail?

Yes, all the time
It happens sometimes
No, it happens rather rarely
16. Do you catch yourself overanalyzing every action, word, or gesture of your partner?

Yes, all the time
It happens sometimes
No, it happens rather rarely
17. Do you experience intense and unwanted thoughts about them?

Yes, all the time
It happens sometimes
No, it happens rather rarely
18. Do you connect everything you see and experience with your partner?

Yes, all the time
It happens sometimes
No, it happens rather rarely
19. And when you see they are reciprocating your feelings…

I feel exhilarated, euphoric even
I feel excited and happy
I feel joyous and fulfilled
20. Do you catch yourself constantly looking for cues of reciprocation?

Yes, I even start to think I may be obsessing a bit
Only at times when I feel a bit more anxious
Rarely or not at all, I’m rather confident
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