Is Your Relationship Falling Apart Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 68984 | Updated: Dec 13, 2024
1. Do you think you and your partner are living separate lives?

No
Only when both of us are busy
Sometimes
All the time
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2. How do you and your partner approach conflicts?

We resolve them together in a calm and respectful way
We try, but emotions sometimes get in the way
Conflicts are frequent and often unresolved
We avoid discussing problems altogether
3. How often do you enjoy physical or emotional intimacy?

Regularly, it’s a key part of our connection
Sometimes, but it’s not as frequent as I’d like
Rarely, it feels forced or disconnected
Never, intimacy feels completely absent
4. Do you feel excited about the future of your relationship?

Yes, I’m confident about what’s ahead for us
Somewhat, though I have minor concerns
Not really, I often feel uncertain
No, I dread what lies ahead
5. When you face challenges, how does your partner respond?

They’re supportive and help me through every time
They help when they can, but it’s inconsistent
They usually don’t notice when I’m struggling
They seem indifferent or add to the stress
6. How often do you feel heard by your partner during conversations?

Always, they listen and understand me fully
Most of the time, though we sometimes misunderstand each other
Occasionally, it feels like they’re distracted or uninterested
Rarely or never, I feel ignored or dismissed
7. Do you want to get out of this relationship?

No
I don't think so
Maybe
Yes
8. Do you feel something is missing from your relationship?

No
Sometimes
Frequently
All the time
9. How is your sexual life with your partner?

Amazing and fulfilling
Satisfactory
It is okay, I guess
I am thoroughly dissatisfied
10. Do you discuss the future of your relationship?

Frequently
Sometimes
Rarely
Never
11. Who do you talk to about your relationship when you two are in trouble?

Directly to my partner
Just to very close relatives
To friends
To everyone around
12. Have any of you two cheated on their partner?

No, never
Yes, but it wasn't serious
Yes, multiple times
Infidelity is the norm for our relationship
13. How often do you go out with your partner?

A couple of times a week
Once a week
Every few weeks
Never
14. An attractive new person comes to work. What do you think about this?

Absolutely nothing
This is an opportunity to make a friend
I wonder how careful I should be
I'm thinking about how to attract their attention
15. Do you feel bored with your partner?

Not at all
Sometimes
Yes
Yes, very bored, and I feel no interest in them any more
16. How well do you two communicate?

Very well
Pretty well
There could be some improvements
We either fight or give each other the silent treatment.
17. Are you sure you love your spouse?

Very sure
So-so
Not really
I am pretty sure I don't love him or her anymore
18. How often do you have fights with your partner that you can’t resolve?

Rarely
Occasionally
Once a week
At least once every day
19. What do you feel when you come home from work?

I feel happy
I feel relaxed
I am indifferent
I feel anxious
20. When is the last time you have been physically affectionate with your partner?

Just the other day
Days ago
Weeks ago
I can't even remember
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