Is My Wife Gaslighting Me Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 87 | Updated: Dec 28, 2023
1. When you express your feelings or concerns, how does your wife typically respond?

She listens empathetically and acknowledges your feelings
She often dismisses your feelings, making you doubt their validity
She sometimes listens but often brushes off your concerns as unimportant
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Is My Wife Gaslighting Me Quiz
Gaslighting, a term derived from the classic film "Gaslight," is a form of psychological manipulation that seeks to make a person doubt their own perceptions, memories, and sanity. It can be subtle, leaving its victims questioning their own reality. ... see more
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2. How does your wife react when you confront her about something that upset you?

She tries to understand your perspective and discusses the issue
She frequently denies any wrongdoing and blames you for overreacting
She occasionally admits fault but tends to minimize her actions
3. Does your wife frequently change her story or deny saying things she clearly said in the past?

No, she generally maintains consistency in her statements
Yes, she frequently denies saying things she clearly said before
Occasionally, she forgets what she said but doesn't outright deny it
4. How often does your wife question your memory or make you doubt your recollection of events?

Rarely, she trusts your memory and respects your perspective
Frequently, she insists that your memory is unreliable, causing self-doubt
Occasionally, she may question your memory, but it's not a constant issue
5. When conflicts arise, does your wife try to make you feel like you're overly sensitive or irrational?

No, she acknowledges your feelings and tries to find solutions
Yes, she often belittles your emotions, making you question yourself
Occasionally, she may suggest you're overreacting, but it's not constant
6. How often does your wife use manipulation tactics, like guilt-tripping or silent treatment, during disagreements?

Rarely, she prefers open communication to resolve conflicts
Frequently, she uses manipulation tactics to control the situation
Occasionally, she resorts to manipulation when upset
7. Does your wife often blame you for things that are clearly her responsibility or actions?

No, she takes responsibility for her actions and decisions
Yes, she frequently shifts blame onto you, making you doubt yourself
Occasionally, she may blame you, but it's not a recurring pattern
8. How does your wife react when you confront her with evidence that contradicts her statements or actions?

She acknowledges the evidence and addresses any inconsistencies
She often denies or downplays the evidence, making you question its validity
Occasionally, she may be defensive, but she eventually accepts the evidence
9. When discussing past events or arguments, does your wife insist that things happened differently than you remember?

No, she respects your memory of past events and tries to understand
Yes, she frequently claims that your recollection is incorrect
Occasionally, she may have a different perspective on past events
10. How often does your wife make you feel like you're going crazy or losing your grip on reality during arguments?

Rarely, she values your perspective and doesn't try to undermine your sanity
Frequently, she uses tactics that make you question your sanity
Occasionally, she may make you doubt yourself during heated arguments
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