Is My Wife A Narcissist Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 5574 | Updated: Apr 02, 2025
Is My Wife a Narcissist Quiz

Have you ever wondered if your wife's confidence is just high self-esteem or something more?

Maybe she loves being the center of attention, rarely admits fault, or always sees herself as the victim… and you cannot help but question if narcissism plays a role.

Relationships can be complicated, especially when one person seems to take up all the space. This "Is my wife a narcissist?" quiz will help you explore your wife's behaviors—gently, honestly, and with an open mind. Let's find out together!

Questions Excerpt

1. Is your wife an empath?

A. Not at all

B. Yes, definitely

C. Yes, but she is too shy to tell people that

D. Yes, but only to people she knows

2. How does your wife react when someone else gets attention?

A. She gets upset and tries to redirect focus to herself

B. She notices but does not always react negatively

C. She does not mind, but she enjoys attention, too

D. She is happy for them and does not feel threatened

3. Does your wife expect special treatment from others?

A. Yes, she believes she deserves it

B. Sometimes, but not in an entitled way

C. Rarely, she is confident but does not expect favoritism

D. No, she treats everyone as equals

4. Does your wife manipulate situations to get what she wants?

A. Yes, she often does this

B. Sometimes, but not intentionally

C. Rarely, she is quite direct about what she wants

D. No, she is very honest in her approach

5. Does your wife take credit for things others have done?

A. Yes, all the time

B. Occasionally, but not in a harmful way

C. Not really; she prefers to acknowledge others

D. No, she gives credit where it is due

6. Does your wife dismiss your feelings when you express concerns?

A. Yes, almost always

B. Sometimes, depending on the situation

C. Rarely, she usually listens

D. No, she always takes my concerns seriously

7. Is your wife accepting of contrary viewpoints?

A. Never

B. Yes

C. Sometimes

D. Depends

8. Is your wife argumentative?

A. Always

B. Rarely

C. No

D. Yes, but only regarding things she is passionate about

9. Does your wife follow the rules?

A. Never

B. Yes

C. Sometimes

D. Always

10. Does your wife ever offer any help to someone?

A. Never

B. Yes

C. Sometimes

D. Always

11. Does your wife talk more about her than anyone else?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

D. Most of the time

12. Does your wife's personality sometimes make your relationship challenging?

A. Yes, frequently

B. Occasionally

C. Rarely

D. Not at all

13. Is your wife hated more than she is admired because of her narcissistic ways?

A. Yes

B. No

C. It's possible

D. It’s impossible because she is such a sweet woman

14. Does your wife do too much in public, even when no one is watching her?

A. Yes, all the time

B. Sometimes

C. Yes, but it's rare

D. No

15. Does your wife act like a diva every day?

A. Yes

B. Sometimes

C. No

D. It's rare but sometimes

16. Are your wife's admirers scared of her?

A. Yes, always

B. No, because she’s very sympathetic

C. I believe so

D. No, she is way too shy

17. Does your wife get furious when she doesn’t get her way?

A. Yes, all the time

B. Sometimes

C. Not really

D. Rarely

18. Does your wife force herself to be the center of attention in public?

A. Yes, always

B. Sometimes, but she doesn’t force it

C. No, it’s not forced; it’s rehearsed

D. No, never

19. Does your wife believe that she is the best in almost everything?

A. Yes

B. No

C. It's possible

D. I don't know

20. Is your wife always the victim of others' jealousy, according to her?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

D. Only when the pattern repeats

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