Is Your Partner Cheating Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 24470 | Updated: Mar 18, 2025
Is Your Partner Cheating Quiz

Do you have a nagging feeling that something isn’t right in your relationship? Suspecting a partner of cheating can be unsettling, especially when they won’t admit the truth. While no one wants to believe they’re being deceived, certain red flags—like sudden changes in hygiene, unexplained late nights at work, or secretive behavior—can be telling. Instead of second-guessing yourself, take this quiz to uncover the signs of infidelity and get closer to the truth!

Questions Excerpt

1. Has your partner ever cheated on you?

A. No

B. I don't think so

C. I have a doubt

D. I think so

2. Have you noticed a sudden increase in their social outings without you?

A. Yes, they are always out with "friends" I never meet

B. Yes, but they still keep me in the loop

C. Sometimes, but it seems harmless

D. No, they always include me

3. Do you feel like your partner is avoiding making future plans with you?

A. Yes, they always dodge the topic

B. Yes, but they give vague excuses

C. Not really, but they seem less enthusiastic

D. No, they are still planning our future together

4. Has your partner started accusing you of cheating or being suspicious?

A. Yes, and it feels like they are projecting

B. Yes, but not often

C. Occasionally, but we always resolve it

D. No, they trust me completely

5. Does your partner seem emotionally distant from you lately?

A. Yes, they barely engage with me anymore

B. Yes, but only in certain situations

C. Sometimes, but we still connect

D. No, they are just as loving as before

6. Has your partner suddenly changed their texting habits?

A. Yes, they are always glued to their phone now

B. Yes, they text more than usual but act normal

C. Not really, but they are a bit more private with their phone

D. No, nothing has changed

7. Has anyone ever accused your partner of cheating?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Not that I know of

D. Yes, but they have proven them wrong

8. Do you guys have a satisfying sex life?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Not very good

D. I'm not sure

9. Does your partner introduce you as your partner to others?

A. Yes

B. No

C. It has started recently

D. It's been long

10. Does your partner leave the room or act secretively to take calls?

A. Yes

B. I don't think so. Only work calls

C. I have a doubt

D. No

11. Does your partner behave the same way as they used to?

A. No, they are totally changed

B. No, their behavior is slightly changed

C. Yes, mostly

D. Exactly the same

12. Is your partner using secretive technology you are not familiar with?

A. Yes, they have all kind of weird apps I have never heard about

B. Yes, but it's not that obvious

C. Not really

D. No

13. Have you noticed if your partner has more work responsibilities suddenly?

A. Yes, they always have an urgent project they need to complete

B. Yes, they spend more time at the job

C. It happens just occasionally

D. No

14. Do you suspect your partner hiding their spending and financial history from you?

A. Yes, they do random transfers and cash withdrawals

B. Yes, there seems to be some extra spending

C. I don't think so

D. Absolutely not

15. Is your partner avoiding sexual intimacy and contact with you lately?

A. Yes, we haven't had sex for weeks

B. Yes, we have sex more rarely

C. Not really

D. No, our sex life is unchanged

16. Has your partner’s need for privacy increased lately?

A. Yes, a lot

B. Yes, moderately

C. Not much

D. Not at all

17. Does your partner remember things wrong?

A. Yes, only to realize we haven't seen that film together

B. Sometimes

C. Rarely

D. Never

18. Have their tastes in music, film, cooking or anything else changed lately?

A. Yes, a lot

B. Yes, a little

C. Not really

D. Not at all

19. Does your partner pay more attention to their appearance lately?

A. Yes, they would go to salons and shopping every day

B. Yes, but it's not obvious

C. Not really

D. Not at all

20. Does your partner have mood swings?

A. All the time

B. Every day

C. Occasionally

D. Never


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