Does My Husband Bully Me Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 5911 | Updated: Jan 19, 2025
Does My Husband Bully Me Quiz

Unfortunately, some husbands engage in bullying behavior toward their wives, often without even realizing it. This can include making hurtful comments about appearance, weight, or decisions and consistently belittling or demeaning their partner. Such behavior can severely impact a wife’s self-esteem and mental health, leaving her feeling unhappy and unsupported in the relationship.

If you’re questioning whether your husband’s actions are crossing the line, take our "Does My Husband Bully Me?" quiz to gain clarity and better understand your situation.

Questions Excerpt

1. What kind of remarks does your husband say about you around other people?

A. He gives me compliments and brags about me

B. He makes the occasional negative teasing remark

C. He puts me down at least once every time we’re around others

D. He either gets others to make fun of me with him, or he ignores me entirely

2. Do you feel that your husband encourages his siblings or friends to disrespect you?

A. Not at all

B. Rarely, but he apologizes and then stands up for me

C. I think he does, but it’s subtle

D. Yes, all the time

3. Do you like going out with your husband?

A. Yes, absolutely

B. Yes, sometimes

C. Occasionally I don't

D. No

4. Do you feel comfortable around your husband?

A. Yes, he is the best person on earth

B. Usually

C. No, because of what he might say

D. No, because I never know when he might explode

5. Do you think your husband sticks up for you enough?

A. Yes

B. Usually

C. Hardly ever

D. Never

6. Do you feel people respect you less because of your husband?

A. Not at all

B. Maybe

C. Probably

D. Definitely

7. Do you believe you can talk freely to your husband?

A. Totally

B. Usually

C. Rarely

D. Never

8. Do you think your husband will protect you against others’ negative comments?

A. Always

B. Usually

C. Rarely

D. Never

9. Do you think your husband criticizes you because he loves you?

A. He makes suggestions sometimes but always supports my decisions

B. He rarely criticizes, but he means well

C. Often

D. I used to think so, but now I’m worried

10. Are you happy with your marriage?

A. Yes, very much so

B. Usually

C. Not very

D. No

11. Does your partner try to control you?

A. Never

B. Rarely

C. Frequently

D. All the time

12. Does your partner blame you even when it's not your fault?

A. Never

B. Rarely

C. Most of the time

D. Always

13. Does your partner put his needs before yours?

A. Never, we have a good balance

B. Rarely

C. Frequently

D. All the time

14. Does your partner leave for long holidays leaving you behind?

A. Never

B. Rarely

C. Frequently

D. Very often

15. Does your partner treat you like an inferior person?

A. Never

B. Sometimes

C. Often

D. Most of the time


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