Does My Husband Bully Me Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 6361 | Updated: Jan 19, 2025
1. What kind of remarks does your husband say about you around other people?

He gives me compliments and brags about me
He makes the occasional negative teasing remark
He puts me down at least once every time we’re around others
He either gets others to make fun of me with him, or he ignores me entirely
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Does My Husband Bully Me Quiz
Unfortunately, some husbands engage in bullying behavior toward their wives, often without even realizing it. This can include making hurtful comments about appearance, weight, or decisions and consistently belittling or demeaning their partner. Such... see more
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2. Do you feel that your husband encourages his siblings or friends to disrespect you?

Not at all
Rarely, but he apologizes and then stands up for me
I think he does, but it’s subtle
Yes, all the time
3. Do you like going out with your husband?

Yes, absolutely
Yes, sometimes
Occasionally I don't
No
4. Do you feel comfortable around your husband?

Yes, he is the best person on earth
Usually
No, because of what he might say
No, because I never know when he might explode
5. Do you think your husband sticks up for you enough?

Yes
Usually
Hardly ever
Never
6. Do you feel people respect you less because of your husband?

Not at all
Maybe
Probably
Definitely
7. Do you believe you can talk freely to your husband?

Totally
Usually
Rarely
Never
8. Do you think your husband will protect you against others’ negative comments?

Always
Usually
Rarely
Never
9. Do you think your husband criticizes you because he loves you?

He makes suggestions sometimes but always supports my decisions
He rarely criticizes, but he means well
Often
I used to think so, but now I’m worried
10. Are you happy with your marriage?

Yes, very much so
Usually
Not very
No
11. Does your partner try to control you?

Never
Rarely
Frequently
All the time
12. Does your partner blame you even when it's not your fault?

Never
Rarely
Most of the time
Always
13. Does your partner put his needs before yours?

Never, we have a good balance
Rarely
Frequently
All the time
14. Does your partner leave for long holidays leaving you behind?

Never
Rarely
Frequently
Very often
15. Does your partner treat you like an inferior person?

Never
Sometimes
Often
Most of the time
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