Do You Have An Obsessive Love Disorder Quiz

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Do You Have an Obsessive Love Disorder Quiz

Love can feel intense and all-consuming, but sometimes it crosses into something more overwhelming than romantic. Obsessive love disorder is not a clinical diagnosis, but it describes patterns like extreme attachment, possessiveness, or constant fear of losing someone.

These feelings can quietly affect your well-being and the relationship itself. This quiz, "Do you have an obsessive love disorder?" is not here to judge—it is a gentle way to help you reflect on your emotions and behaviors.

Ready to take a closer look at what might be going on?

Questions Excerpt

1. Do you tend to idealize this person or see them as perfect?

A. All positive

B. Both, I can see that they are not perfect, but that is okay

C. I'm aware of the negative things, but I try to focus on the positive

2. Would you change your plans, routines, or priorities just to be around this person?

A. Yes, I do that often without thinking twice

B. No, I try to maintain a balance in my life

C. Occasionally, if it really feels important

3. Do you fantasize about being with this person constantly, even if they are not available or interested?

A. Yes, I cannot stop imagining a life with them

B. No, I am realistic about my feelings and situation

C. Sometimes—I know it is just fantasy, but I enjoy it

4. Have your friends or family ever expressed concern about your attachment to someone?

A. Yes, they have said I seem too obsessed

B. No, they think my relationship is healthy

C. A few times, but not in a serious way

5. Do you try to find out where they are or who they are with when you are not together?

A. Yes, I often try to track their whereabouts

B. No, that is not something I feel the need to do

C. Sometimes, especially when I feel insecure

6. Do you feel anxious when you do not hear from the person you love for a while?

A. Yes, I get really anxious and start overthinking

B. Not really, I trust they are just busy

C. Sometimes—I do worry but try not to let it affect me too much

7. How do you usually respond if they do not answer your call?

A. I call them multiple times until they pick up

B. I wait—they will call me back

C. I get a little worried and try once or twice more

8. How often do you check or engage with this person on social media?

A. At least a few times a day

B. Sometimes., when I check on my feed

C. I do not have a count

9. Which of the following do you tend to obsess about most?

A. People who I am attached to

B. Mostly fictional characters, celebrities

C. No one in particular

10. Do you get angry if someone says anything bad about your crush/partner?

A. Yes, I get angry

B. Sometimes, when they are very rude

C. I might feel bad, but I do not react

11. Do you feel like someone has taken over most of your thoughts lately?

A. Yes, I cannot stop thinking about them

B. No, not really

C. Sometimes—it depends on the day

12. Do you find yourself excessively preoccupied with someone you have strong feelings for?

A. Yes, very often

B. Never or rarely

C. Sometimes

13. Do you get jealous when you see your crush or partner speaking to other women or men?

A. Yes, all of the time

B. No

C. Only when I feel insecure around the other person

14. Do you talk about the person you’re in love with often?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

15. Have you expressed your feelings to this person, or do they know how strongly you feel?

A. Yes, of course!

B. No, because I’m not in love with them

C. Not yet

16. Do you lose focus on important tasks because you're thinking about the person you’re in love with?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

17. Do they often show up in your dreams or daydreams?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

18. When you’re with your family and friends, do you feel you need to speak about your crush or partner?

A. Yes, they are constantly on my mind

B. No, not really

C. I don’t need it, but I do if it seems relevant

19. Do you feel like you message them more than you probably should?

A. Yes, I can't help it

B. No, just when necessary

C. Sometimes

20. Do your feelings for this person feel a bit overwhelming or all-consuming?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Not sure


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