Are You Over Him Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 4305 | Updated: Apr 02, 2025
1. Are you currently dating?

Yes, it is refreshing
Yes, but I haven’t met anyone yet or put much time into it
I just started dating/thinking about dating
No, not yet
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Are You Over Him Quiz
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2. If so, what made you start dating?

I truly felt like I was ready to get back out there and start dating again
Family/friends felt I should try to start dating again
I started dating to make him jealous / I am not dating yet, but I have thought about it
I am not dating
3. How often do you still think about him and miss him?

I really don’t anymore
Seldom
At least once a week
Several times a week or more—it still hits me hard
4. rnDo you still stalk his social media pages to see his pictures/posts?

No, we are not even connected on social media anymore
Rarely
Yes, sometimes I do
More than I’d like to admit. It still makes me really upset
5. Do you still talk at all?

No, never
Rarely, only necessary circumstances
Sometimes we do, but it’s more arguing than anything
Yes, I can’t help it
6. How do you feel when you meet a new guy you might be interested in?

Excited/Refreshed
Cautious, but it feels good
Nervous/scared
No, we are not even connected on social media anymore.
7. Do you drunk text him?

No, never
Rarely. I have been really good about trying not to
Sometimes I do
Yes, pretty much every time I get drunk. It gives me an excuse to talk to him.
8. Is it easy for you to see his flaws as opposed to missing him?

Yes, I don’t know why I was so hung up on him
I think I do both sometimes, but I definitely see his flaws now and why it wouldn’t ever work with us
I do both, but I try to focus on the negatives and why it did not work out
I know I should, and my friends say that too, but it is hard because I still miss him a lot
9. How do you feel when you run into him, see photos of him, or see him with another person?

At first, it makes me nervous, but then it doesn’t bother me
It makes me anxious for a while, but it doesn’t hurt or bother me like it used to
It still bothers me, but I try not to dwell on it
It makes me feel sick to my stomach and very upset
10. How do you feel about him today as opposed to when you first broke up?

I definitely don’t hate him anymore; sometimes things just don’t work out
I feel less angry towards him but still get upset sometimes
I am still pretty angry at him and miss him sometimes
I still feel hurt and resentful about what happened, and it often brings up strong emotions
11. How do you feel when friends or family mention him?

It does not faze me at all—we are in the past
It catches me off guard sometimes, but I can handle it
It makes me feel weird, and I am not sure how to respond
It brings everything back and really upsets me
12. What do you feel when you hear "your song" or visit places you both used to go?

Just nostalgia—no strong feelings anymore
A little emotional, but I try to focus on the good times and let them go
It still stings a bit—I avoid those things when I can
I either cry or feel like I need to leave the moment I hear/see anything connected to us
13. Do you still fantasize about getting back together with him?

No, that chapter is fully closed
Sometimes, the idea crosses my mind, but I know it is not right
I think about it more often than I would like to
I dream about it constantly—it is hard to imagine life without him
14. When you talk about the breakup, how do you describe it?

As something I learned from and am grateful for is behind me
As something that hurt but helped me grow
As something I still do not fully understand
As something that still feels unfinished and painful
15. How do you feel about the idea of falling in love again?

Open and excited—it feels like a fresh start
Hopeful, but I know I need to take it slow
Nervous and unsure if I can trust again
I do not even want to think about it—it feels too soon
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