Are You Hypersexual Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 23454 | Updated: Jun 28, 2025
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Are You Hypersexual Quiz

Hypersexuality, often characterized by excessive preoccupation with sexual thoughts, urges, or behaviors, can have varying effects on individuals. While some people may manage these tendencies without significant disruption, others might find that it interferes with relationships, work, or emotional well-being.

This self-assessment quiz is designed to help you explore whether your experiences align with common signs of hypersexual behavior. By reflecting on your patterns and behaviors, you may gain better insight into how they affect different aspects of your life.

We encourage you to answer each question honestly and thoughtfully. Your responses are confidential and intended solely for personal reflection.

Note: This quiz is not a diagnostic tool. Hypersexuality can sometimes be linked to underlying psychological, emotional, or medical conditions. If you suspect that your behavior is causing distress or negatively impacting your life, it is crucial to consult a qualified mental health or medical professional for proper assessment and guidance.

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1. Have you ever experienced financial difficulties due to spending on sexual activities or related materials?

A. Yes, I’ve faced financial consequences because of it

B. Sometimes, but I manage to recover quickly

C. No, this has not been an issue for me

2. How often do you feel that your sexual behavior conflicts with your long-term goals?

A. Frequently—it feels like it holds me back.

B. Sometimes I wonder if it's getting in the way.

C. Rarely or never—I feel aligned with my goals.

3. Have you ever broken promises or personal boundaries around sexual behavior?

A. Yes, more than once, even when I didn’t want to.

B. Occasionally, but I try to stay mindful of them.

C. No, I usually honor my commitments and boundaries.

4. How do you feel if you're unable to engage in sexual activity when you want to?

A. I get irritable, distracted, or unsettled.

B. I feel disappointed but move on fairly quickly.

C. It doesn’t bother me much—I shift my focus easily.

5. Do you find yourself planning your day around sexual activity or content?

A. Yes, it often shapes how I spend my time.

B. Occasionally, I adjust my schedule but not always.

C. No, it’s rarely a factor in how I plan my day.

6. How do you feel when you try to limit your sexual activity?

A. I feel restless or anxious and often give in again.

B. It's a little frustrating, but I manage it most times.

C. I'm comfortable setting limits and sticking to them.

7. How do you feel about the role of sex in your life overall?

A. It feels overwhelming or excessive, dominating my thoughts and actions

B. It plays an important role but does not overshadow other aspects

C. It is a balanced and healthy part of my life

8. Have you ever felt that your sexual behaviors were addictive or out of your control?

A. Yes; I sometimes feel overwhelmed by urges and struggle to resist them

B. Occasionally, but I can regain control when necessary

C. No, I do not view my behaviors as addictive

9. How often do you feel distracted by sexual thoughts when trying to focus on work, studies, or other responsibilities?

A. Very often, it disrupts my focus and productivity

B. Occasionally, but I can usually refocus quickly

C. Rarely or never, I stay focused on my tasks

10. Do you feel a strong need to hide or lie about your sexual behaviors?

A. Yes, I often feel the need to hide these behaviors from others

B. Sometimes, but not frequently

C. No, I am open and honest about my behaviors

11. How often do you find yourself preoccupied with sexual thoughts or fantasies?

A. Frequently, to the extent that it affects my focus or daily functioning

B. Occasionally, but it does not significantly affect my routine

C. Rarely, as I can easily manage these thoughts

12. How often do you use digital platforms (e.g., websites, apps) to engage in sexual activities?

A. Very often, and it sometimes feels habitual or hard to limit

B. Occasionally, but it is not a regular activity

C. Rarely or never; I do not rely on these platforms

13. Have you ever felt compelled to engage in sexual activities despite potential negative consequences?

A. Yes, even when I know it might cause harm

B. Occasionally, but I weigh the risks first

C. No, I consider the consequences and make informed choices

14. Have you ever felt that your sexual behaviors are out of alignment with your values or goals?

A. Often, it feels like I am acting against my principles

B. Occasionally, but it is not a significant issue

C. Rarely or never; my actions align with my values

15. How often do you feel your sexual behaviors or thoughts interfere with your responsibilities?

A. Frequently, to the point where I neglect important tasks

B. Occasionally, but I can usually catch up

C. Rarely or never; my responsibilities come first

16. Have you tried to reduce or stop certain sexual behaviors but found it challenging?

A. Yes, I have tried but repeatedly struggled to stop

B. I’ve considered reducing certain behaviors but haven’t found it too difficult

C. No, I have not felt the need to reduce or stop

17. How do you feel after engaging in sexual activities or behaviors?

A. I often experience feelings of guilt or regret afterward

B. Neutral, with occasional regret

C. Satisfied and at peace with my actions

18. Have your sexual behaviors ever caused problems in your relationships, work, or daily life?

A. Yes, they have created significant issues

B. Sometimes, but the impact has been manageable

C. No, they have not caused any problems

19. How often do you engage in sexual activity as a way to cope with stress, sadness, or other emotions?

A. Regularly; it often feels like a common way I cope with emotions

B. Occasionally, when I am under significant stress

C. Rarely or never; I have other ways to manage emotions

20. Do you feel like your sexual urges are difficult to control?

A. Yes, I often feel overwhelmed by them

B. Sometimes, but I can manage them most of the time

C. No, I feel in control of my sexual desires


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