Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 704 | Updated: Dec 09, 2024
1. When your partner goes on a friend's night out, how do you feel?

Sounds fun; I’m happy for them
It's ok, but that shouldn’t be frequent
Why would they go out without me?
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Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life Quiz
Being in a relationship can motivate you to put in effort, keeping it strong and healthy. However, there can be some tendencies that contribute to a relationship negatively. Sometimes, people don’t realize where their relationship issues are ro... see more
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2. Do you feel like you actually need a partner?

Yes, of course
If it happens, it happens
Not really
3. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

In a peaceful relationship, working my dream job
Who knows, I'll let life decide
Anywhere except my present situation
4. Your partner asks you to cook something for them; what would be your answer?

Sure, just let me finish my current task
Can you say ‘please’?
Why can’t you make it yourself?
5. How often do you plan dates with your partner?

Every once in a while
Only on occasions
There’s no time for dates
6. Do you express your love to your partner?

Yes.
Somewhat
Not really
7. Would you cancel a planned vacation with your partner for work/career-related stuff?

Never
Maybe
Yes, if it’s important
8. Do you spend screen-free time with your partner?

Yes
Sometimes
Pretty much never
9. Do you share your problems with your partner?

Yes, always
Some of them
Not really
10. How do you feel when your partner points out anything negative about you?

I listen to them and think about it
Depends on my mood
I get irritated and snap back
11. What would you do if your partner looked sad?

I’ll be worried and would try talk to them
Give them some time and space to bounce back
Tell them to cheer up because their sadness is ruining my day
12. Do you ever try to change your partner?

Not really
Sometimes
Often
13. Do you compare your partner with others in front of them?

No, never
I do but not in front of them
Sometimes
14. Do you obsess over a specific idea of how your relationship should be?

Not really
I give our problems a lot of thought, but I can still focus on what’s in front of me
Yes, I really do
15. How seriously do you take other people’s opinions about your relationship?

I listen to them but go with my own judgment
I discuss them with my partner
I get worried if they say something negative
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