Am I The Problem In My Relationship Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 12556 | Updated: Jan 22, 2025
1. Do you compare your relationship to others' relationships?

Yes, always
No, my relationship is unique and special
Well, my partner compares me to other people
Yes, but I involve my partner
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Am I the Problem in My Relationship Quiz
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2. Do you think your partner listens to your concerns?

No, they often brush them off
Sometimes, but I feel like I have to push
Yes, they usually make an effort
Yes, but I try to express myself better
3. Do you frequently talk about the future together?

No, I prefer to keep it vague
Sometimes, when things feel right
Yes, I like planning together
I don’t bring it up, but I’m open to it
4. Do you feel comfortable sharing your feelings with your partner?

No, I usually hold back
Sometimes, but I worry about their reaction
Yes, most of the time
Yes, but only when it’s a good time
5. Do you often seek reassurance from your partner?

Yes, constantly
Occasionally, when I'm feeling insecure
Not really, I trust my partner
Sometimes, but I try to be independent
6. Do you feel like you’re always right during disagreements?

Yes, I often do
Sometimes, but I can see their point
Not really, but I struggle to admit it
No, I value both perspectives
7. Do you get angry easily during arguments with your partner?

Yes
No
Only when my partner gets angry
No, I try to maintain my composure
8. Do you say words that hurt your partner when you are angry?

Yes
No
Yes, if my partner says something that hurts me
No, I stay away from them until I calm down
9. Do you apologize to your partner when you are wrong?

Yes, I always do
No
Sometimes, if my partner will also apologize
Yes, I also try to solve the problem
10. How do you react when your partner corrects you?

I try to listen and understand
Why should I listen when my partner is not perfect as well?
I do not like my partner's tone
I listen to them
11. Are you the one starting arguments?

Sometimes
Yes, all the times
Most of the time
No, never
12. Do your partner’s friends hate you?

Yes
No
Sometimes
I've got no idea
13. Do you try to manage your partner’s income?

Yes
No
Sometimes
Yes, but it's rare
14. Are your mutual plans based on your needs only?

Yes, mostly
Some of them
Very few of them
No, not at all. It’s a mutual effort
15. Are you romantic with your lover?

Yes
No
Sometimes
I try but it’s not perfect
16. Are you supportive enough of your lover?

Yes
No
Sometimes
At least I try
17. Are you faithful to your lover?

Yes
No
Sometimes
Yes, but only when we are together
18. Are you too possessive of your lover?

Yes
No
Sometimes
Maybe. I don't know
19. Do you feel like breaking up when things don't go your way?

Yes
No
Sometimes
I think about it but never act upon it
20. Would you describe yourself as selfish?

Yes
Sometimes
I don’t know. I try not to think about anyone’s desires, including my own.
I try very hard not to be, and my partner and I work hard to honor each other’s needs.
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