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Am I Still In Love With Him Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 28000 | Updated: Sep 02, 2026

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1. Do you still find him attractive?

He is physically attractive, but I am not attracted to him like that anymore No, not at all Sometimes Yes, I do

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Am I Still in Love With Him Quiz

Feelings can shift so gradually over time that it's sometimes hard to know if what you feel now is still love, or something that's quietly changed shape.  Maybe you've caught yourself wondering if the spark is still there, or if you're holding ...

Feelings can shift so gradually over time that it's sometimes hard to know if what you feel now is still love, or something that's quietly changed shape.

Maybe you've caught yourself wondering if the spark is still there, or if you're holding onto something more out of habit than genuine love.

This “Am I still in Love with him?” quiz offers a reflective, judgment-free way to check in honestly with your heart. There's no need to have it all figured out right now, just an honest moment to notice what's really there.

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2. Do you still find yourself missing him often?

No, I don't think about missing him at all these days Every once in a while, but it passes quickly Yes, certain moments still catch me off guard Yes, I miss him more days than not

3. Is he still the first person you think of calling when you have exciting news, have a bad day, or just need someone to talk to?

No, my instinct now is to call someone else entirely Occasionally the thought crosses my mind, but I don't act on it Sometimes I still catch myself wanting to call him Yes, he's still my first instinct more often than not

4. Do you still replay conversions or arguments you had with him in your head and get emotional?

No, those memories don't really affect me anymore Rarely, and when I do, it doesn't hit as hard as it used to Sometimes, certain moments still bring up real emotion Yes, I find myself replaying things often, and it still stings

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6. Do you still have a desire to try to work things out with him?

No, that door feels closed for me now Rarely Not really, though the thought has crossed my mind briefly Sometimes I wonder "what if we tried again" Yes, part of me still hopes we could work things out

7. Do you still picture him in your life when you think about your future?

No, my future feels like it doesn't include him anymore Not really, though old habits of thought slip in occasionally Sometimes he still shows up in how I picture things Yes, it's hard to picture my future without him in it

8. Do you still compare every other guy you meet to him, and they never seem to measure up?

No, I meet people without thinking of him at all Rarely, and when I do, it doesn't really affect how I feel about them Sometimes I catch myself comparing, even if I don't want to Yes, he's often the benchmark, whether I like it or not

9. Do you still frequently check his social media accounts to see what he’s doing and who he is hanging out with, or post specific things that you want him to see?

No, I honestly don't think about his social media anymore Rarely, maybe out of idle curiosity every so often Sometimes I still find myself checking Yes, I check often, and I still think about what he'd notice

10. Are your friends and family sick of hearing you still talk about him?

No, his name barely comes up in conversation anymore Rarely, they might have heard his name once or twice recently Sometimes they gently remind me I've mentioned him again Yes, they've told me I bring him up more than I realize

11. Do you still hold onto things he gave you as a gift or keepsakes from your relationship that you can’t let go of?

No, I've let go of most of that already Rarely, I've kept just a small thing or two without much thought Sometimes I look through old things and it stirs something up Yes, I've kept quite a bit, and it's hard to imagine parting with it

12. Do you feel relieved or at peace when you spend time away from him?

Yes, I feel much better when I’m not around him Sometimes, but it’s not always the case Not really, I still feel connected in some way No, I miss him when we’re apart

13. When you think about dating someone else, how do you feel?

Excited, I’m ready to move on I’m open to the idea, but I’m not rushing Unsure, I still think about him a lot The thought of someone else doesn’t sit right with me

14. When people mention him, how do you react?

I don’t feel much of anything anymore I feel fine but slightly uncomfortable I feel emotional or nostalgic It always stirs up strong emotions

15. Are you actively trying to avoid places or events where you might run into him?

No, I’m not worried about seeing him Sometimes, but it doesn’t bother me too much Yes, I still try to avoid him I dread the thought of running into him

16. Do you find yourself imagining how things could have been different if you had made other choices?

No, I’m focused on the present and future Occasionally, but I don’t dwell on it Yes, I still think about it sometimes All the time, I can’t stop thinking about the “what ifs.”

17. When you hear a song that reminds you of him, how do you react?

It doesn't really register, it's just a song now I notice it, but it passes without much feeling It brings up a wave of memories I wasn't expecting It still hits hard, sometimes I have to skip it

18. If he reached out to you today, how would you feel?

Indifferent, I wouldn't feel much either way Mildly curious, but not particularly affected My heart would probably skip a beat before I could stop it I'd feel a rush of hope that maybe things could change

19. How do you feel about the idea of him moving on with someone new?

I genuinely wish him well and feel nothing more It stings a little, but it doesn't consume my thoughts It's harder to sit with than I expected The thought is genuinely painful to imagine

20. How often do you find yourself defending him or making excuses for how things ended?

I don't really think about the ending anymore Rarely, I've made peace with how things played out Sometimes I still catch myself justifying his side of things Often, I still find reasons to explain away what happened

21. How do you feel when you imagine seeing him happy and thriving without you?

Genuinely happy for him, it doesn't affect me Mostly okay with it, maybe a small twinge sometimes It brings up more complicated feelings than I expected It's hard to picture without feeling a real pang of sadness

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