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Am I Self Centered Quiz?

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 2135 | Updated: Oct 27, 2026

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1. When a friend tells me about their day, I...

Listen and ask follow-up questions. Listen, though I sometimes jump in with my own stories. Usually steer the conversation back to myself.

About This Quiz

Am I Self Centered Quiz?

Most of us focus on our own needs at times, and that’s part of being human. But if friends have hinted that you don’t always notice their needs, or you’ve wondered whether you take more than you give, it may be worth a closer look.&...

Most of us focus on our own needs at times, and that’s part of being human. But if friends have hinted that you don’t always notice their needs, or you’ve wondered whether you take more than you give, it may be worth a closer look.

This ‘Am I self-centered?’ quiz may help you reflect on how you listen, share, and support others, so you can understand your patterns a little more clearly.

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2. When a friend shares a problem with me, I...

Focus on how they’re feeling and how I can help. Try to help, but often compare it to my own experiences. Feel impatient or turn it into a story about me.

3. Are you a difficult person to live with?

No, I’m easygoing and try to consider others. I can be, depending on the situation. Yes, I often get into conflicts with the people I live with.

4. When someone needs help and it’s inconvenient for me, I...

Help if I reasonably can. Help, but sometimes grudgingly. Usually find a reason not to.

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6. Have you ever been called selfish?

I have never been called that. Sometimes, but not often. I get that often.

7. When I’m not the center of attention in a group, I...

Feel comfortable and enjoy the conversation. Feel a little restless, but go with it. Try to bring the attention back to me.

8. When a friend mentions something important coming up, like a job interview, I...

Remember and check in afterward. Remember sometimes, but often forget to follow up. Rarely remember unless it involves me.

9. When a team project succeeds, I...

Make sure everyone’s effort is recognized. Share credit, though I like my part to be noticed. Make sure people know it was mostly thanks to me.

10. When I realize I’ve hurt someone, I...

Apologize and try to make it right. Apologize eventually, though I tend to explain myself first. Rarely apologize and expect them to get over it.

11. When friends and I make plans, I...

Am happy to compromise on what we do. Compromise sometimes, but prefer things my way. Usually insist on what I want.

12. When someone gives me feedback about my behavior, I...

Listen and consider whether they have a point. Feel defensive at first, but think about it later. Dismiss it or point out their flaws.

13. In my close relationships, I feel that...

We give and take fairly equally. I sometimes take more than I give. Others usually do more for me than I do for them.

14. When someone else is celebrating good news, I...

Feel happy for them and celebrate with them. Feel happy, though I sometimes compare it to my own life. Feel envious or shift the focus to my own achievements.

15. When I make decisions that affect others, I...

Think about how it will affect them. Consider others, but my needs usually come first. Rarely think about how it affects anyone else.

16. When I have time, skills, or advice that could help someone, I...

Share them freely when I can. Share them, but mostly with people who can return the favor. Keep them to myself unless there’s something in it for me.

17. When someone is talking and I disagree, I...

Let them finish and then share my view. Sometimes interrupt, but try to listen. Cut them off to make my point.

18. When I’m in a bad mood, I...

Try not to take it out on others. Sometimes let it affect how I treat people. Expect others to adjust around me.

19. When someone seems upset around me, I...

Notice and ask if they’re okay. Notice, but don’t always ask. Usually don’t notice unless they tell me.

20. When I’m running late or need to change plans, I...

Let others know and apologize for the inconvenience. Let them know, but don’t think much about it. Expect others to wait or adjust.

21. If the people close to me described me honestly, they’d probably say I’m...

Thoughtful and considerate. Caring, but sometimes wrapped up in my own world. Hard to rely on because I put myself first.

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