Am I In Love Or Lust Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 8769 | Updated: Mar 19, 2025
Am I In Love or Lust Quiz

Love and lust are powerful emotions, but they come from different places and shape relationships in distinct ways. Love is a deep, emotional bond rooted in affection, trust, and commitment. It grows over time, creating a lasting connection built on mutual care and understanding.

Lust, on the other hand, is driven by intense physical attraction and desire. It is often fueled by passion and excitement, but it may not always lead to emotional intimacy or long-term commitment.

While lust can be an exciting and natural part of the attraction, love extends beyond fleeting moments, forming a foundation that withstands challenges and deepens over time. If you find yourself questioning your feelings, taking a step back to reflect can provide clarity.

Take this "Am I in love or lust?" quiz to explore the nature of your emotions and gain insight into your relationship.

Questions Excerpt

1. How do you feel when your partner hugs you?

A. Proud

B. Aroused

C. Happy and aroused

D. Embarrassed

2. How long have you known each other?

A. A few years

B. A few weeks

C. A few months

D. A few days

3. What do you do when you go to the movies?

A. We discuss the movie before and after we watch it

B. Make out

C. We make out and also discuss the movie

D. Watch the movie

4. How do you feel when you look at your partner?

A. Lucky

B. Turned on

C. Lucky and aroused

D. Normal

5. How did it go when you introduced your partner to your family?

A. They impressed my family and I felt proud

B. We couldn't keep our hands off each other

C. They impressed my family, and we couldn’t keep our hands off each other

D. I have not introduced them to my family

6. What do you love most about your partner?

A. Their personality

B. Their body

C. Everything!

D. Nothing

7. When you get upset, what does your partner do?

A. Gives me a hug and comforts me

B. Starts kissing me

C. Hugs and kisses me to offer comfort

D. Nothing

8. When you start talking about your feelings with your partner, what does he/she do?

A. Listens to me and tries to understand me

B. Holds me

C. Holds me and listens to me

D. Leaves the room

9. Have you ever said “I love you” to one another?

A. Yes, of course!

B. No, I don't think so

C. Once or twice

D. No, never

10. What did you do for your last anniversary?

A. Had a romantic dinner and exchanged gifts

B. Spent the whole day in bed

C. Went out for dinner then spent the night in bed together

D. Had a big fight

11. Do you end up spending more time indoors or outdoors?

A. Both, as there should be a balance

B. Mostly indoors

C. Both, as long as we are together

D. We don’t spend that much time together

12. Are you comfortable being emotionally vulnerable around your partner?

A. Yes, for sure

B. I’m afraid to be emotionally vulnerable

C. Yes, I can be vulnerable in all forms

D. No, not at all

13. Have you had a chance to meet and spend time with each other’s friends ?

A. Yes, for sure

B. Not really

C. Yes, we’ve met a few

D. No, not at all

14. Do you know how their last relationship ended?

A. Yes, we have discussed that deeply

B. We haven’t discussed that

C. Yes, we have

D. No, that hasn’t come up

15. Do you notice small things that make them happy?

A. Yes, for sure

B. Not really

C. Yes, sometimes

D. No, not at all


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