8 Reasons Why Do Women Complain So Much

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No one complains without any reason especially when it comes to women. No women like to complain and whine all day long, however, if they do complain then there is a reason behind it.

There are some very common reasons for a woman to complain such as a disagreement with her husband, financial issue or being disrespected; but that’s not all. Some women might complain due to a selfish nature whereas some complain and have a genuine reason behind it.

Mentioned below are some common reasons why women complain, keep on reading to figure your woman out

1. Insecurity

This is one of the most common reason for a woman to complain.

When she feels insecure, she might automatically nag and complain, she will question her man in a suspicious tone and complain in an interrogative way.

This helps them in looking for signs of being disloyal; she’ll complain about him not spending time with her and may even demand to know who he has been busy with.

To deal with this kind of woman you can easily spend time with her, give her access to your privacy and show her that you have nothing to hide.

Maggie Martinez, LCSW, says

If this is something that is occuring in your relationship, it is imperitive that the woman does some reflection and understanding of where this insecurity might be coming from.

Listen to what she has to say and soon it will all be okay.

2. To hurt

Some women have a habit of holding grudges and then turn to revenge and avenging; to do this, they use nagging as a weapon.

They will not stop until their guy is tired and is going through hell; to handle this woman it is better to be upfront. Tell her right away how much her words hurt you, apologize and ask for her forgiveness. Take some time out for her and make her understand how much she means to you, this will help in making her put down her weapon.

3. Reaction to being threatened

Some women tend to complain as a form of being defensive especially if they view their man as a threat to them. They complain and nag to show their man that she is equal to them.

To handle this woman it is important to let her know that you are on her side. Also, avoid being aggressive towards her.

4. To get her way

Some women have bullying personality; they try to complain and nag in order to get their way. This is all part of their plan and tactic. In order to handle this woman is to agree to what she says when she is in a good mood; this way she will not disagree when things get tough.

5. Misplaced fears

Some women have a bad habit of living their lives in fear. This can be out of anxiety. 

They constantly worry and are paranoid; they tend to believe that something bad is going to happen to them. She will keep calling her man’s phone to know if everything is alright, she will constantly contact him, and she will look at this as care. When things don’t go according to her plan, she will nag and remain scared.

Maggie Martinez explains,

A lot of times this can stem from being hurt in the past or anxiety building up to create a panic response.

To handle this woman you can kiss her when she feels anxious, take care of her, provide her with a relaxed environment and pray with her when she worries.

6. Extreme expectations

Most women complain when their expectations are not reached; these women believe that their man is a result producing machine instead of being understanding. They nag their man when he doesn’t work according to their plan, they think of him as a failure and even mock him when he is not able to buy her something or meet her needs.

This kind of woman needs some time to cool down; she needs to take part in planning and help in executing it along with her man.

7. Impatience

Some women complain due to their impatient nature. They put pressure on them, they get unsettled and then start to doubt easily. To handle this lady, it is best that you bring attention to the fact that you love her and work on her weakness. Teach her to pray more, exercise with her and be patient.

8. Seek attention

This is one of the most general reason why women complain. Some girls are attention hungry, and they nag to be noticed, they speak loudly so that you focus them. To handle this girl you can give her your time and attention and make her feel incredibly special.

Hope this article helped in making you understand why women nag. If your women belong to any of the above categories, then try to handle her properly. Always remember, a little love and attention goes a long way.