Has either of you ever experienced infidelity in a relationship?

I have cheated before, but not on my current partner

There has been infidelity in my past relationships

There has been infidelity in our current relationship

Do you feel like there are issues of trust in your relationship?

Maybe, but there hasn’t been any proof

Sometimes, we do have trust issues

We definitely have trust issues in our relationship

How do you feel you are able to communicate your needs and concerns with your partner and vice versa?

I think we have pretty good communication most of the time

We don’t have good communication at all. There seems to always be a disconnect between us

Sometimes there are communication issues, but not all the time

Most of the time, we can communicate effectively, but certain things we can’t agree on or understand each other

When you have arguments or disagreements, how do they typically start?

Things tend to build up over time until they just boil over and cause a huge fight

Frustration over not feeling like they understand me or my needs

It seems like we could fight over any little thing

Do you think you both feel that there are issues in your relationship?

I am not sure about my partner, but I definitely do

If you could change one thing about your partner, what would it be?

Their emotional connectedness to me and showing me they still want me and are attracted to me

That we had more of the same interests or goals

Their past affects how they are right now

Do you frequently have the same fights over and over, or are they always about something different?

We could fight about anything, but a majority of the time, it’s rooted in the same thing

It’s usually the same things

How do your fights/arguments/disagreements usually end?

We usually agree to try to work on the issue, but then things don’t change

Either one or both of us walk away

We ignore each other for a few days until we cool down

We can argue for days until one of us just has had enough

Are you happy in your relationship?

Sometimes I am, sometimes I am not

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 74 | Updated: Feb 24, 2022

There are issues in every relationship from time to time, but when there continue to be ongoing issues that occur for no particular reason, it could be very frustrating. Sometimes, people get to a point where things build up, and before you know it, they are fighting over every little thing as a result of their pent-up frustration. If this sounds like what you are experiencing, you may be wondering what to do. It is important to know what the issues are and how they started, so you could come up with a plan to fix them. The best advice is to start with the biggest problem and work your way through all the issues. But how do you know what the biggest relationship problems actually are? Take this short quiz and find out!