How Can New Parents Have Fun?

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Your life that once revolved around yourself and your spouse, by becoming a new parent, there is a change of events. 

With the coming of a child as a fruit of your union, along with the feelings of joy, fathers or mothers initially find it a challenging time for their relationship.

The fathers feel abandoned now that most focus and energy goes to the child while mothers are stressed because of added responsibility and body changes as a result of childbirth. Have you heard of postpartum depression?

Watching your child reach their milestones as they entirely depend on you is inevitably fulfilling. Nevertheless, new parents need to have an agreement on the most appropriate time to conceive and deliver a baby.

Although it takes time for some couples, in most cases, you are in control of when to deliver, so that you give your child all your attention, without compromising your relationship.

It is an essential piece of advice for first-time parents not to stop enjoying your life!

Great ways to enjoy passionate time together as new parents include-

1. Collective responsibility in handling the baby

The baby is your product!

So, raising a baby and taking care of a baby is a collective responsibility.

Share the load in handling the baby. Change diapers; keep your wife company as she breastfeeds the baby at night. If you have colic in your baby, then take turns to soothe them to sleep. In fact, the husband can now take the role to allow the mother to have a rest.

Do not just sit with your phone when there are dishes in the sink. Remember that the baby needs attention when the mother is busy doing laundry. The fact that you are all involved from the early stages of the baby’s growth, your wife feels appreciated and loved.

2. Go out and have fun

No doubt, being a parent is hard. Being stuck at home, being a good parent, and taking care of kids can drain you out, both physically and mentally.

Which rule dictates that new parents have no right to have fun?

Although unsolicited, it is very common for depression and parenting to coexist. So, you mustn’t neglect your mental health after becoming a new parent.

You need time together away from the child. Get a babysitter or a relative to look after the baby as you go for a weekend getaway away from town to rekindle your love for one another.

When it’s safe, get a baby stroller and take a walk with your child in the company with your spouse. It kills the boredom and monotony of child care within the walls of your house.

So, when you get tired of parenting, try all possible innovative ways to spend quality time with your spouse and make the best of life with a toddler.

3. Babysit when your wife meets friends or gets a makeover

Mothers tend to forget they also need to take care of themselves. When your wife gets tired of being a parent, sponsor her a makeover as you stay behind to babysit or take care of the child.

That break can help her surviving parenthood and rejuvenate her to prevent postpartum depression. The emotional fulfillment because of the thought of a caring partner strengthens your love despite the new family patterns.

Well, here’s a funny video that will make you laugh your heart out. Also, these babysitting ideas might help to inspire you!

4. Join online and physical support groups for strength

When you are a first-time parent, you might wonder, what parenthood feels like, or why is parenting so hard.

This new responsibility comes with its share of challenges. You may not have an idea on how to deal with emerging issues.

Make good use of social media platforms and new parent’s support groups to give you clues on how other new parents manage in situations. It is therapeutic to know that you are not alone in the journey of parenting.

It is imperative to rejuvenate your life of new parent time and again. After all, tired parents and a baby make a lethal combination!

5. Accept your new role and handle it with passion

Acceptance should be the first step to have a fruitful and happy relationship as a new parent. Acknowledge that things will no longer be the same, but you have the power to make it enjoyable despite the changes.

You will no longer have the same sleeping patterns, you are not at liberty to go out as often as you wish, and in all your plans, your child is a priority.

Obviously, it is choking, but the fact that you have to take care of a human being gives you the motivation to soldier on. The thought of an innocent child who entirely depends on you gives you the will to prove your worth through a disciplined product. 

Share your fears and doubts with older parents, your mom, dad, and in-laws to give you direction whenever possible.

6. Take time off work to concentrate on parenting

Gauge your financial ability, and if it can cater to all your needs with minimal complaints, then it is a noble idea for the mother to take the time to concentrate on parenting.

Handling a newborn with work responsibilities might be a lot of work for some new parents.

The sense of guilt and fear of uncertainty lowers your production levels. If you have an understanding employer, then organize for a flexible work schedule even if it means a pay cut so as not to compromise on parenting.

New parents require support from friends and family to go through the initial phase of parenting. Both partners need the constant backing off each other to ensure no one is overwhelmed by the responsibilities of a new entrant in the family.

Your life as a parent is bound to change. But, despite all the challenges, make sure that you enjoy parenthood.