The Ultimate Marriage Compatibility Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 13561 | Updated: Feb 18, 2025
The Ultimate Marriage Compatibility Quiz

Compatibility is the key to a successful, enduring, and happy relationship. Compatibility is cumulative of many things. Shared interests, personal views on a relationship, preferences, and viewpoints in politics, life, and philosophy. Based on this, it’s unlikely for polar opposite people to enter into a relationship and then sustain it for an extended period. 

If you are in a marriage with difficult situations and your relationship is in danger of turning sore, there’s still some hope. A marriage compatibility test can help you determine if your potential partner is for keeps, or sooner or later, the cracks are bound to appear. This ultimate marriage compatibility quiz will help you identify the conflicting issues together. Even if one or both of you are not presently putting in a lot of hard work in your marriage, there is still hope as you will find a perspective and hopefully resolve the compatibility issues and see each other in a new light.  

Questions Excerpt

1. When it comes to family finances, are you both on the same page?

A. Yes, always

B. Most of the time

C. Not so much

D. We are polar opposites

2. How do you and your partner express affection towards each other?

A. We regularly show affection in ways that are meaningful to both of us

B. We express affection, but our styles differ slightly

C. One of us is more affectionate than the other, leading to occasional misunderstandings

D. We rarely express affection, and it affects our relationship negatively

3. How compatible are your lifestyles and daily routines?

A. Our routines and habits are well-synchronized

B. We have some differences but manage to coordinate effectively

C. Our routines often clash, leading to minor inconveniences

D. We have completely different lifestyles that cause frequent conflicts

4. How do you and your partner approach conflict resolution?

A. We address issues calmly and find solutions together

B. We sometimes resolve conflicts but often leave issues unresolved

C. We frequently argue, and it takes time to move past disagreements

D. Our conflicts often escalate, and we struggle to find resolutions

5. How aligned are you and your partner on having children?

A. We both want the same number of children and have a clear plan

B. We have some differences but are willing to compromise

C. One of us is unsure about having children

D. We have completely different views on having children

6. How do you and your partner handle financial decisions?

A. We discuss all financial matters openly and make joint decisions

B. We have general discussions but manage our finances separately

C. One of us primarily makes the financial decisions

D. We often argue about money and struggle to find common ground

7. Do your religious views come together?

A. Yes

B. We practice different religions, but there is respect for both

C. No

D. We practice different religions and often disagree on most beliefs

8. How do you spend your leisure time?

A. We both have our respective hobbies, but shared interests as well

B. We spend that time together

C. We have our individual interests

D. We spend it with other people

9. Do your political views align with those of your partner?

A. Yes

B. Most of them

C. Very few

D. Not at all

10. Do you both agree on the subject of kids?

A. Yes, we are on the same page

B. Yes, we have talked about it a few times

C. We have not talked about it yet

D. We disagree

11. How would you describe your personality?

A. Passionate

B. Intelligent

C. Organized

D. Fun-loving

12. You and your partner want to go out for dinner. How do you decide on a restaurant?

A. We love the same restaurants, so we just talk about it and easily decide on a restaurant

B. We’re both pretty laid-back, so we just head into the city and pick a restaurant

C. We alternate who gets to choose the restaurant

D. We spend most of the night arguing, so we just end up getting fast food

13. Were you two friends before you started dating?

A. Yes, for a few years

B. Yes, for a few months

C. We were friends, but not super close

D. No, we just met and then started dating

14. The holidays are coming up, and it’s time to visit the family. What are your plans?

A. We invite both families over for a huge get-together and have a great time!

B. We visit my partner’s family during the day and then visit my family in the evening

C. Our families don’t really get along, so we just spend the holidays together instead

D. My partner’s family doesn’t like me (or my family doesn’t like my partner) so we don’t bother visiting either of our families

15. Do they get along with your friends?

A. Yes, they really likes my friends

B. Yeah, but they don’t hang out without me

C. Not really

D. They have never met my friends

16. Do you get along with their friends?

A. Yes, we get along really well

B. Yeah, I like them, but we don’t hang out very much

C. Not really

D. I’ve never met his/her friends

17. How often do you talk about your future together?

A. Often, we both want the same things for our future

B. A few times; we have a few disagreements, but we generally have the same future in mind

C. Rarely; I try to bring it up, but they don't seem to want to talk about it

D. Never; we’ve never talked about it and don’t feel the need to

18. How often do the two of you talk to each other?

A. Every day

B. Every few days

C. Once a week

D. Once a month

19. How often do the two of you see each other?

A. Every day

B. A few times a week

C. Once a week

D. Once a month

20. How would you describe your partner’s personality?

A. Funny

B. Hard-working

C. Easygoing

D. Serious


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