Am I Having An Emotional Affair Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 6568 | Updated: Sep 12, 2024
1. Do you call or text this person randomly?

No, only when I have something to talk about
Rarely
Yes, whenever I feel like talking to them
Yes, often
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2. Do you feel the need to keep your friendship with this person a secret?

No, I’m open about it
Not really, but I don’t talk about it much
Yes, sometimes I avoid mentioning it
Yes, I actively hide it from others
3. Do you ever compare this person to your partner?

No, I never compare them
Sometimes, but it’s just in passing
Yes, and I often find myself thinking about the differences
Yes, and I think about it frequently
4. Do you make excuses to spend time with this person?

No, I don’t feel the need to
Occasionally, but it's harmless
Yes, sometimes
Yes, often
5. How would you feel if your partner knew the extent of your interactions with this person?

Totally fine, I have nothing to hide
Slightly uncomfortable, but not too worried
A bit anxious, they might not understand
Very nervous, I wouldn't want them to find out
6. Do you share personal details with this person that you don't share with your partner?

No, I keep those things private
Only small, insignificant details
Yes, sometimes
Yes, I share a lot with them
7. Do you look forward to talking to or meeting with your friend?

Not really
A bit
Yes, sometimes
Yes, always
8. Do you mind your body language when you’re with your friend?

No, I'm usual
I just stay presentable
Yes, I get careful
Yes, I get nervous
9. Are you protective of your conversations with this person?

Not at all
Not really
Some bit of it
Yes, mostly
10. Do you bring them gifts?

Only on their birthdays
On all special occasions
Yes, sometimes
Yes, often
11. How often do you think about this person?

Maybe once a day
Every couple of hours
Every hour
All the time
12. What do you feel when the other person is paying you a compliment?

I don't believe them or ignore it
I don't take it very seriously
I am pleased
I feel like the compliment has made my day
13. How do you feel when you haven’t spoken to your friend for days?

It doesn't bother me at all
Slightly disappointed
I feel like something is missing
I feel incomplete and anxious
14. How do you feel about your friendship with this person?

I don’t feel guilty at all
Sometimes I think it would be better to put an end to it
I can’t help interacting with this person
I feel guilty and hide it from my partner
15. How is your relationship with your partner?

We are doing fine
We have some issues but nothing serious
We don't get on very well
We fight all the time and avoid each other
16. How do you act when the other person is around?

I act normally
I am in a good mood
I am happy
I have butterflies and find it difficult to concentrate
17. How do you prepare before meeting this person?

I don’t do anything special
I dress casually but take care to look good
I put on my best outfit
I take good care of my appearance and maybe buy a gift for them
18. What do you complain about to your friend?

General issues
Work and house chores
Conflicts with other people
My partner and personal life
19. Does this person know about your marital status and spouse?

Yes. There are no secrets
I think they know
I never shared with them
I don't want them to know
20. What do you talk about with him or her?

Weather and general topics
Stuff that's happening at work
Hobbies
My most intimate thoughts
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