Am I Having An Emotional Affair Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 4884 | Updated: Sep 12, 2024
Am I Having an Emotional Affair Quiz

Just enjoying the company of another person doesn’t count as cheating, right? What if you feel attraction for him or her just on the basis of your emotional understanding? Answer the following questions to find out if you’re having an emotional affair with someone.

Questions Excerpt

1. Do you call or text this person randomly?

A. No, only when I have something to talk about

B. Rarely

C. Yes, whenever I feel like talking to them

D. Yes, often

2. Do you feel the need to keep your friendship with this person a secret?

A. No, I’m open about it

B. Not really, but I don’t talk about it much

C. Yes, sometimes I avoid mentioning it

D. Yes, I actively hide it from others

3. Do you ever compare this person to your partner?

A. No, I never compare them

B. Sometimes, but it’s just in passing

C. Yes, and I often find myself thinking about the differences

D. Yes, and I think about it frequently

4. Do you make excuses to spend time with this person?

A. No, I don’t feel the need to

B. Occasionally, but it's harmless

C. Yes, sometimes

D. Yes, often

5. How would you feel if your partner knew the extent of your interactions with this person?

A. Totally fine, I have nothing to hide

B. Slightly uncomfortable, but not too worried

C. A bit anxious, they might not understand

D. Very nervous, I wouldn't want them to find out

6. Do you share personal details with this person that you don't share with your partner?

A. No, I keep those things private

B. Only small, insignificant details

C. Yes, sometimes

D. Yes, I share a lot with them

7. Do you look forward to talking to or meeting with your friend?

A. Not really

B. A bit

C. Yes, sometimes

D. Yes, always

8. Do you mind your body language when you’re with your friend?

A. No, I'm usual

B. I just stay presentable

C. Yes, I get careful

D. Yes, I get nervous

9. Are you protective of your conversations with this person?

A. Not at all

B. Not really

C. Some bit of it

D. Yes, mostly

10. Do you bring them gifts?

A. Only on their birthdays

B. On all special occasions

C. Yes, sometimes

D. Yes, often

11. How often do you think about this person?

A. Maybe once a day

B. Every couple of hours

C. Every hour

D. All the time

12. What do you feel when the other person is paying you a compliment?

A. I don't believe them or ignore it

B. I don't take it very seriously

C. I am pleased

D. I feel like the compliment has made my day

13. How do you feel when you haven’t spoken to your friend for days?

A. It doesn't bother me at all

B. Slightly disappointed

C. I feel like something is missing

D. I feel incomplete and anxious

14. How do you feel about your friendship with this person?

A. I don’t feel guilty at all

B. Sometimes I think it would be better to put an end to it

C. I can’t help interacting with this person

D. I feel guilty and hide it from my partner

15. How is your relationship with your partner?

A. We are doing fine

B. We have some issues but nothing serious

C. We don't get on very well

D. We fight all the time and avoid each other

16. How do you act when the other person is around?

A. I act normally

B. I am in a good mood

C. I am happy

D. I have butterflies and find it difficult to concentrate

17. How do you prepare before meeting this person?

A. I don’t do anything special

B. I dress casually but take care to look good

C. I put on my best outfit

D. I take good care of my appearance and maybe buy a gift for them

18. What do you complain about to your friend?

A. General issues

B. Work and house chores

C. Conflicts with other people

D. My partner and personal life

19. Does this person know about your marital status and spouse?

A. Yes. There are no secrets

B. I think they know

C. I never shared with them

D. I don't want them to know

20. What do you talk about with him or her?

A. Weather and general topics

B. Stuff that's happening at work

C. Hobbies

D. My most intimate thoughts


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