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Should You Stay Or Leave The Relationship Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 14804 | Updated: Dec 23, 2025

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1. How do you feel about your partner's habits or quirks?

They frustrate or annoy me constantly Some things bother me, but I can deal with them I accept their quirks without issue I love their unique habits; they make our relationship special

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Should You Stay Or Leave the Relationship Quiz

Not sure whether you should leave your relationship or keep trying to make it work? You’re not alone. Thousands of people search for relationship clarity every day: Am I happy? Is this worth fixing? Is it time to walk away? This quick “S...

Not sure whether you should leave your relationship or keep trying to make it work? You’re not alone. Thousands of people search for relationship clarity every day: Am I happy? Is this worth fixing? Is it time to walk away?

This quick “Stay or Leave” relationship quiz is designed to help you understand your feelings, your patterns, and what your relationship might be missing. Take the quiz to get insight into whether staying, leaving, or pausing to reassess is the right move for you.

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2. What first name or nickname would you like us to use?

You may optionally provide this to personalise your insights.

3. When you think about the future, what role does your partner play in your vision?

I don’t see them in it I’m unsure; it feels unclear I see them in most parts of my future They are an important part of my long-term plans

4. Do you still enjoy spending quality time together?

Not really; it often feels draining Sometimes, depending on our mood Usually, we have good moments Absolutely; I look forward to it

5. How balanced does the effort in your relationship feel?

I give way more than I receive It feels somewhat unbalanced It’s mostly equal We both put in consistent and mutual effort

6. When conflicts happen, how does your partner respond to your emotions?

They dismiss or invalidate my feelings They try, but don’t always understand They usually respond calmly and respectfully They actively listen and support me

7. Do you feel emotionally safe expressing your true feelings to your partner?

Rarely or never Sometimes, but I hold back often Most of the time, yes Always; I can be myself completely

8. How do you feel when you imagine your life without your partner?

Relieved or free Uncertain or a little sad I cannot imagine my life without them Very sad; they’re an important part of your life

9. Are your future goals and values aligned?

Not at all; we want very different things We have noticeable differences, but we’re trying to work on them Mostly, with minor differences Completely; we're on the same page about our future

10. How do you handle conflicts together?

We argue without resolving things We struggle but are willing to seek help to improve We manage to resolve most issues over time We communicate openly and resolve conflicts effectively

11. Do you feel emotionally supported by your partner?

Rarely or never Sometimes, but I often wish it were more consistent Most of the time, yes Yes, I feel very supported

12. Have you seriously considered leaving the relationship?

Yes, I’ve thought about it often Sometimes, during difficult moments Rarely No, not at all

13. Would you be able to compromise with your partner in order to work things out?

No, not anymore Yes, I could try Maybe, but it would be difficult No, it is out of the question

14. Is feeling unaccomplished together a major reason you want to leave?

Yes No Yes, and a whole lot of other things Sometimes you do want to leave them because of that

15. Do you think that your partner still gives you the same attention they used to?

Yes, always No, not anymore I sometimes feel this way That’s not really their style, even from the start

16. Do you feel used by your partner?

Yes, all the time I used to but not anymore Yes, and it bothers me a lot Yes, I do sometimes

17. Are you tired of the relationship?

I’ve felt this way for a long time Yes Not really No

18. Do feelings of hurt or broken trust play a role in wanting to leave?

Yes, very much Somewhat A little, but not the main reason Not at all

19. Has your partner ever suggested taking a break or separating?

Yes, more than once Yes, but we talked it through Not directly, but it has been implied No

20. Is your desire to leave influenced by someone outside the relationship?

Yes Somewhat Not really Not at all

21. How openly do you and your partner discuss concerns about the relationship ending?

We talk about it often during conflicts We've brought it up a few times Rarely Never

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