What Is The State Of Your Marriage Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 1808 | Updated: Oct 09, 2025
1. Have you shared painful past experiences with each other?

Yes, we do that all the time
Yes, we’ve done that in the past
I'm not sure
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2. Do you celebrate each other's achievements and milestones?

Always, big or small—we cheer each other on
Sometimes, but not every time
Rarely, those moments don't get much attention
3. How do you feel about your emotional closeness right now?

Very close, we share openly and feel connected
Close at times, but it can fade in the day-to-day
Honestly, I often feel distant or unseen
4. Do you still make each other laugh?

Yes, laughter is one of our strongest bonds
Sometimes, though not as much as before
Not really, humor doesn't show up often anymore
5. What's it like when you two disagree on something important?

We talk it through calmly, even if it takes time
We manage, but sometimes feelings get in the way
It often ends up in arguments or silence
6. How often do you surprise each other with little acts of love?

Often, it's part of how we keep things alive
Sometimes, but it depends on the mood or time
Rarely, we don't really think about it anymore
7. How do you usually spend your free time as a couple?

We enjoy doing things together and make time for it
Sometimes we do, but often we end up doing our own thing
We rarely spend free time together, and it shows
8. Who is the most sympathetic one out of the two of you?

We both are
It depends on the situation
I'm not really sure
9. Who cleans most of the time?

We divide it equally
It depends on the situation
They do/I do
10. Who makes most of the decisions in your marriage?

We both do
It depends on the situation
They do/I do
11. What led you to get married in the first place?

Love
I don’t know
I just knew it was time to tie the knot
12. Are you more in love with one another now that you are married?

Yes
No
Sometimes we are
13. Do you regret being married?

Yes, very much
Sometimes
No, I love it
14. Do you enjoy sex with each other?

Yes
No
Sometimes
15. How many times a week do you fight?

All the time
A few times a week
We fight, but it's rare
16. Do you get along with each other?

Yes, very much
Most of the time
Not really
17. Is money the only thing keeping you together?

Not really, but money does play a role in it
Not at all
Maybe
18. How do you handle financial decisions together?

We plan and discuss openly before making choices
Sometimes we talk, sometimes one of us just decides
Honestly, money issues often cause tension between us
19. Were you madly in love before you decided to tie the knot?

Yes, of course
I think so
I don't really know
20. How well do you understand each other’s personalities?

Very well, we can almost read each other’s minds
Somewhat, but there are still parts we don’t always “get”
Not really, sometimes it feels like we live in two different worlds
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