1. Do you equally share responsibilities in your relationship?
2. Does your husband appear to have a lot more downtime than you do?
3. Does your husband have a good relationship with his mother?
4. Do you feel like you have the same arguments over and over and every time he brings up the same things that never get resolved?
5. Does he criticize your past and/or use it against you to belittle you or try to humiliate you?
6. Does he exert a level of control over you regarding what you wear, how you spend money, how he expects you to behave, who you are spending time with, etc.?
7. Do you feel like he is often trying to bring you down, or is he mostly lifting you up?
8. Do you feel like your husband is the type to get jealous over your successes/achievements, or does he join in the celebration?
9. Does he make you feel like no one else would want you?
10. Do you feel like your mood/behaviors are dictated by what kind of mood your husband has?
11. Does your husband listen when you talk about your feelings?
12. When you argue, does he make an effort to resolve things?
13. Do you feel emotionally safe in your relationship?
14. Does he show appreciation for the things you do?
15. How does your husband react when you need support?
