Is My Husband A Jerk Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 4674 | Updated: Apr 02, 2025
Is My Husband a Jerk Quiz

Do you feel like no matter what you do, your husband never truly appreciates you? Do you go the extra mile to make him notice you, only to be met with indifference or criticism? If you're starting to wonder whether his behavior crosses the line into being outright jerkish, you're not alone. This quiz will help you gain clarity on whether your husband’s actions are just frustrating or if they indicate a deeper issue. Take the quiz now to find out!

Questions Excerpt

1. Do you equally share responsibilities in your relationship?

A. No, He barely does anything

B. Most of the time, I have to ask him for help; he won’t just do what needs to be done or help me when I am doing chores

C. I often have to remind him to help, but he does pitch in when I ask

D. Most of the time, we do

2. Does your husband appear to have a lot more downtime than you do?

A. Definitely. He is always “relaxing,” and I never get to

B. Sometimes, but not always

C. He does right now, but he is not normally like this

D. No, I think we have the same amount

3. Does your husband have a good relationship with his mother?

A. No, not at all

B. It is reasonably good, but generally, he doesn’t talk much.

C. Yes, but he is too worked up to spend time with her.

D. Definitely

4. Do you feel like you have the same arguments over and over and every time he brings up the same things that never get resolved?

A. Yes, all of the time

B. That has happened, but it isn’t all the time

C. Lately, yes

D. Not really

5. Does he criticize your past and/or use it against you to belittle you or try to humiliate you?

A. Yes, all of the time

B. Rarely, he hardly talks.

C. He has occasionally brought up my past in arguments, but it doesn’t seem intentional

D. No, not that I can recall

6. Does he exert a level of control over you regarding what you wear, how you spend money, how he expects you to behave, who you are spending time with, etc.?

A. Yes, frequently

B. Rarely

C. Occasionally, he expresses strong opinions about these things, but it doesn’t feel controlling

D. No

7. Do you feel like he is often trying to bring you down, or is he mostly lifting you up?

A. Definitely, he tries to bring me down whenever he can

B. He doesn’t do any of it; he is the quiet type.

C. Usually, he is my cheerleader, but lately, it seems like all he does is bring me down

D. He is usually my cheerleader

8. Do you feel like your husband is the type to get jealous over your successes/achievements, or does he join in the celebration?

A. Definitely jealous!

B. Most of the time, he would join in the celebration, but sometimes I feel he does have a jealous side.

C. Right now, I would say he is mostly jealous of anything good that happens in my life or any time I experience a success

D. He is definitely celebrating right by my side!

9. Does he make you feel like no one else would want you?

A. Yes, all the time

B. I am not sure

C. Lately, he has been saying things that make me feel insecure, but I’m not sure if he means it that way

D. No, he doesn’t ever say things like that or make me feel that way.

10. Do you feel like your mood/behaviors are dictated by what kind of mood your husband has?

A. Yes, definitely

B. Rarely

C. Lately, yes!

D. No

11. Does your husband listen when you talk about your feelings?

A. Not really. He usually ignores or dismisses me

B. Sometimes, but I have to repeat myself a lot

C. He tries, but lately, he seems too distracted or stressed

D. Yes, he listens and cares about what I say

12. When you argue, does he make an effort to resolve things?

A. No, he walks away or makes things worse

B. Sometimes, but we often go in circles

C. Lately, he avoids talking about it at all

D. Yes, he wants to work things out

13. Do you feel emotionally safe in your relationship?

A. No, I often feel on edge around him

B. Sometimes, but I hesitate to be fully open

C. Lately, I feel distant, but I know he cares

D. Yes, I feel secure and comfortable

14. Does he show appreciation for the things you do?

A. Not at all. I feel completely unappreciated

B. Rarely, but maybe he just doesn’t express it well

C. He used to, but lately, he seems too drained to notice

D. Yes, he regularly thanks me and acknowledges my efforts

15. How does your husband react when you need support?

A. He dismisses my feelings or makes me feel worse

B. He tries, but sometimes he doesn’t know how to help

C. Lately, he seems too overwhelmed to be there for me

D. He listens, reassures me, and offers support


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