Is He Serious About Me Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 4710 | Updated: Apr 22, 2025
1. Does he remember important dates like your birthday or anniversary?

Yes, always
Sometimes
No, not really
He used to, but not anymore
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Sometimes, it is easy to feel the shift but harder to name it. He shows up and says the right things... but is he truly serious about you? Maybe he pulls you close, only to keep parts of himself far away. Maybe his actions are sweet—but scatt... see more
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2. Does he ever surprise you with thoughtful gestures or messages "just because"?

Yes, he does sweet things without needing a reason
Sometimes, but it feels occasional or last-minute
He used to, but now it feels like a chore for him
No, he rarely goes out of his way for that
3. How does he behave when you are upset or crying?

He sits with me, listens, and tries to comfort me
He sometimes tries but gets uncomfortable
He used to care more when I was upset
He gets distant or dismissive
4. Does he remember the small details you tell him—your likes, dislikes, or little stories?

Yes, and he brings them up at the sweetest moments
Sometimes—he remembers a few things here and there
He used to remember more than he does now
No, he often forgets even important little things
5. When he talks about the future, does he include you in his plans?

Yes, he often brings up future plans with "we"
Sometimes, but it feels more hypothetical than real
He used to, but those talks have stopped
No, he talks about his future without including you
6. Does he check in on how you are doing emotionally, even when you do not bring it up?

Yes, he notices and asks with care
Sometimes, if something feels obvious
He used to, but now he seems more withdrawn
No, he rarely seems to notice or ask
7. Does he express pride in your achievements and successes?

Yes, he's genuinely proud
Sometimes, when he remembers
Not really, he doesn't say much
He used to, but not anymore
8. Does he make an effort to solve disagreements and conflicts?

No, he often shuts down or avoids it
He used to, but now he seems less invested
Sometimes—when the mood is right, or pressure builds
Yes, he genuinely wants to work things through
9. Has he introduced you to his closest friends?

Yes, everyone knows about us
Some of them
No, not really
He used to, but not anymore
10. Does he actively involve you in his future plans?

Yes, all the time
Sometimes
No, not really
He used to, but not anymore
11. Would he come to assist you if your car ever broke down in the middle of nowhere?

No
Maybe if it was convenient for him
I think so, but I am not entirely sure
Yes, without hesitation
12. Does he look worried when you are sad?

Yes
No
Sometimes
I don't think so
13. Does he give you compliments about yourself all the time?

Yes, all the time
Sometimes
No
Only when he is in a good mood
14. Does physical intimacy feel mutually enjoyable and valued?

No, it feels disconnected or one-sided
Not like it used to be—it feels different now
Sometimes—it depends on the mood or timing
Yes, it feels emotionally and physically connected
15. Is he more than enthusiastic about Valentine's Day?

Yes, of course
Not really
Sometimes, it depends on his mood at that time
No, not all
16. Does his sister call you to gossip just to familiarize with you?

Yes, all the time
No, never
Sometimes
She used to, but not anymore
17. Has he ever taken you to see his mom?

Yes, he does so all the time
No
Not really, I only speak on the phone with her
He has, but it's been a while since he has done so
18. Does he want to be with you every weekend?

No, he usually has other plans
He used to, but lately, he seems distant
Sometimes, but it feels inconsistent
Yes, he always makes time for us
19. Does he send you flowers sometimes?

Yes, all the time
Yes, every once in a while
No, never
Only when I complain about him not doing it
20. Does he call you every day?

Yes
No
Sometimes
Only when he feels like it
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