After an argument, how quickly do you initiate a conversation?

Immediately, I don't like unresolved issues

I wait a bit, but I'll address it eventually

I avoid it and hope it resolves on its own

How do you apologize to your partner?

I openly admit my mistakes and express my regret

I say sorry, but struggle to fully explain why

I rarely apologize; it's difficult for me

How do you feel about discussing your feelings?

It's essential for resolving issues

It's uncomfortable but necessary

I prefer to keep my feelings to myself

What's your approach to your partner's complaints?

I listen and try to understand their perspective

I listen, but I find it hard to not get defensive

I often dismiss them as overreactions

How often do you compromise?

Frequently, it's important for harmony

Sometimes, though it's not always easy

How do you react to criticism?

I see it as an opportunity to grow

It's hard, but I try to take it constructively

I take it personally and get upset

How do you show your partner you've understood their point?

I repeat back what they've said in my own words

I nod and say I understand, but don't always elaborate

I don't usually show much; I just want to move on

What's your strategy for cooling off after a heated moment?

I take a short break, then return to discuss calmly

I need some time alone, but I don't always come back to the issue

I stay away to avoid further conflict

How do you celebrate resolving a conflict?

We talk about what we've learned and grow closer

We're relieved, but don't delve much into the resolution

We just move on and try to forget it happened

Do you believe in working together to solve relationship issues?

Yes, teamwork is key to overcoming obstacles

Ideally yes, but it feels difficult sometimes

I prefer handling things on my own

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 12 | Updated: Mar 03, 2024

Managing the ups and downs of a relationship is a part of love. But, how good are you at mending fences and healing wounds after a disagreement? Being able to repair your relationship effectively is key to a long-lasting bond. Take this quiz to discover how well you handle relationship repairs and what it says about your approach to love and conflict resolution.