How To Tell If My Boyfriend Is Gay Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 29395 | Updated: Nov 05, 2024
1. Has your boyfriend ever said anything to you about liking men or indicated that he may have been curious about or attracted to men when he was younger?

No, we never had a conversation like this
Yes
He stated that he likes both men and women
He completely denies it
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How to Tell if My Boyfriend Is Gay Quiz
Wondering if your boyfriend might be gay or if it’s just your own insecurities? You’re not alone—many people have these questions for various reasons. Whether it’s subtle signs, a change in your relationship, or simply an unex... see more
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2. In a public place, who do you think your boyfriend would notice or make comments about?

The women
The men
Both women and men
I am not sure
3. Does your boyfriend ever make any homophobic comments?

Not that I can remember
Yes, he has made comments
No, he has a lot of gay friends
Not really; he just gets mad when people suggest he is gay
4. Does your boyfriend watch gay porn, or has he watched it in the past?

Not that I know of; it’s strictly heterosexual
Yes, he has
I never asked, but I would guess he has watched both
No, never
5. Have you ever caught him doing anything online or through an app that made you question his sexuality?

No, never
Yes
Not anything I know for sure, just suspicion
No, never
6. Does your boyfriend seem sexually attracted to you or interested in getting intimate with you?

No
Sometimes, but it seems forced
Most of the time, he does
Yes, definitely
7. Has your boyfriend ever been intimate with a man?

No, definitely not
I think so based on what I’ve heard, but he has never said so
Yes
I am not sure. I don’t think so
8. Does your boyfriend’s mannerisms, lack of masculinity, appearance, or how much time he spends on himself looking good have anything to do with your suspicions?

No, not at all
Somewhat
Not really
Yes, definitely
9. Is your boyfriend more touchy-feely with other men than you are comfortable with?

No, not that I've noticed
Yes, definitely
Sometimes
Rarely
10. Does he seem preoccupied with other people’s sexuality or seem very interested when other people talk about coming out/homosexual encounters?

No, he seems uncomfortable with conversations like that
Yes, always
Sometimes
Rarely
11. Has your boyfriend been emotionally unavailable?

Recently
Always
Sometimes
Never
12. Do his fantasies involve other men?

I don't think so
Sometimes
Mostly
Never
13. Does he check out other men or women?

Women always
Both of them
Mostly men
Mostly women
14. Have you noticed him sharing intimacy beyond friendship with men?

No
A few times
Yes
I don't remember
15. Do you feel confident in confronting him about his sexuality?

I am scared to confront him as he might be gay
I am not comfortable as he might not like it
I don't have to confront him; I already know
I don't think he would mind, but he won't tell the truth
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