Does My Husband Hate Me Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 11655 | Updated: Apr 01, 2025
Does My Husband Hate Me Quiz

Sometimes, it is hard to tell what is really going on behind the silence, the short replies, or the growing space between you. You might be wondering if it is just stress… or something more.

Maybe a look, a word, or just the way he pulls away has left you asking, "Did I do something wrong?"

This "Does my husband hate me?" quiz is here to help you gently explore those feelings—without judgment, just honesty and clarity.

Questions Excerpt

1. How does your husband respond when you suggest spending quality time together?

A. He eagerly agrees and makes plans

B. He seems indifferent or reluctant

C. He frequently cancels or avoids such plans

2. Does your husband support your personal goals or interests?

A. Yes, he encourages me and takes interest

B. Sometimes, but only when it does not interfere with his plans

C. No, he often dismisses or criticizes them

3. How do you feel in your husband's presence most of the time?

A. Safe, relaxed, and emotionally connected

B. A bit anxious or unsure, depending on his mood

C. Uncomfortable, tense, or emotionally drained

4. How does your husband usually react when you initiate meaningful conversations?

A. He is open and willing to talk things through

B. He listens but often seems distracted or impatient

C. He shuts the conversation down or walks away

5. How does your husband respond when you are visibly upset or emotional?

A. He comforts me and asks what is wrong

B. He seems uncomfortable or unsure how to respond

C. He gets annoyed or avoids me altogether

6. How often does your husband make you feel appreciated or valued?

A. He makes me feel genuinely appreciated often

B. Occasionally, but I sometimes wonder if he notices what I do

C. Rarely or never — I often feel invisible

7. How does your husband behave when you initiate physical affection, like hugs or kisses?

A. He responds warmly and reciprocates the affection

B. He allows it but rarely initiates affection himself

C. He avoids physical affection and creates distance

8. How does your husband react when you express your feelings or concerns about the relationship?

A. He listens attentively and tries to understand your perspective

B. He gets defensive or irritated by the conversation

C. He brushes off your feelings and changes the subject

9. How does your husband typically respond when you share your achievements or good news?

A. He congratulates you and shows genuine happiness

B. He responds with a half-hearted acknowledgment

C. He seems disinterested and changes the topic

10. How does your husband communicate with you after an argument?

A. He apologizes and discusses ways to resolve the issue

B. He gives you the silent treatment for a while

C. He dismisses the argument and avoids talking about it

11. What has prompted you to take this quiz?

A. I was just curious

B. There are times when I get the feeling that my husband hates me

C. I am sure he doesn’t like me and I just wanted to reconfirm

12. Has your husband told you that he hates you?

A. Yes, he has said it more than once

B. Sometimes, but that’s only when he is too annoyed about something

C. No

13. Does your husband ignore you or speak to you disrespectfully in front of others?

A. Yes, he treats me like I don’t exist or talks rudely

B. Not actually. Even if we fight, we don’t let it out in the open

C. No

14. Do you think your husband complains about you to other people?

A. Yes, he does

B. It’s possible, but I am not sure

C. No

15. How good is your sex life?

A. There’s no sex life

B. It’s okay—not amazing, but not terrible either

C. It is fantastic

16. How does your husband express his anger?

A. He yells at me

B. He just complains about what irked him

C. He rarely loses his calm. And, if something bothers him, he respectfully communicates the same

17. How many times does your husband fight with you?

A. I have lost count

B. He sometimes gets irritated for reasons I don’t understand

C. We have arguments, but we don’t actually fight

18. Do you sleep on the same bed as your husband?

A. Yes

B. Yes, but sometimes he does sleep on the couch when he is annoyed with me

C. Not anymore

19. Do you still have romantic conversations with your husband?

A. Yes

B. Sometimes

C. No

20. Does he care for you when you are unwell or when you need him otherwise?

A. Yes, always

B. Most of the time

C. No, he doesn’t bother at all


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