Do You Have A Selfish Partner Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 28708 | Updated: Dec 10, 2025

1. Do you pay attention to your partner's needs more than they pay attention to yours?


Yes, all the time.
Sometimes, but I try to keep things balanced.
My partner is very attentive to me as well
We both pay attention to each other’s needs fairly equally
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3. Does your partner listen to you when you express your thoughts or concerns?


Always, they genuinely care about what I have to say.
Sometimes, but they can be dismissive at times.
Only when it suits them or aligns with their interests.
I think so, but I often feel like they do not fully hear me.

4. When you and your partner argue, do they make it all about them?


Yes, they tend to shift the focus onto themselves, making me feel bad.
Sometimes, but I think they do it more to justify their actions than to hurt me.
No, they try to keep things fair and understand my perspective.
Not really—they try to focus on both of our perspectives

5. Do you feel like you sacrifice more of your personal freedom than they do?


Yes, I often make compromises while they do not.
Maybe, but I am not sure if it is intentional.
Occasionally, but they also make sacrifices for me.
No, we both respect each other's independence.

6. Do you ever feel the effort in the relationship is one-sided?


Yes, quite often.
Sometimes, but I am not sure if it is intentional.
I have never really thought of it that way.
No, I feel valued and appreciated.

7. Do you feel like you are a top priority for your partner?


Yes, they always make me feel important and loved.
No, I often feel like I come second to their needs.
It varies—sometimes I do, other times I do not.
Mostly, but sometimes I still feel like their needs come first

8. Does your partner share their financial resources with you?


Yes, they are generous and open about finances.
They share some, but they like to maintain control over most of it.
They contribute a little, but they prefer to keep things separate.
No, they keep everything to themselves.

9. Does your partner openly share details about their life with you?


Yes, we have open and honest conversations
They share some things, but not everything
Not really; I feel like I share much more than they do
They avoid talking about certain aspects of their life.

10. How does your partner react when they do not get their way?


They get upset and try to make me feel guilty.
They rarely get upset about it.
Sometimes they react strongly, but it often becomes about how it affects them
They can be frustrated, but they usually calm down quickly.

11. Do you feel unhappy in your relationship due to your partner's behavior?


Yes, I often feel drained and unfulfilled.
Yes, sometimes I feel trapped or restricted.
Yes, but mostly because they can be overwhelming.
No, I am happy in the relationship.

12. Do they consider your preferences when making everyday decisions (plans, meals, outings)?


Yes, they always check in and make decisions with me
Usually, though sometimes they forget
Rarely—they tend to decide based on what they want
No, they expect me to follow their plans without discussion

13. How does your partner react when you need support (emotionally or practically)?


They show up for me without hesitation
They help, but only if it doesn’t inconvenience them
They often dismiss my feelings or problems
They expect support from me but don’t give much back

14. When you have a success or good news, how do they respond?


They celebrate with me and seem genuinely happy for me
They acknowledge it, but briefly
They change the subject or minimize it
They get annoyed or make the conversation about themselves

15. When it comes to chores, tasks, or shared responsibilities, how balanced does it feel?


We divide things fairly, and both contribute
I do a bit more, but they still help
I handle most things while they do the bare minimum
They expect me to manage everything without complaint

16. How does your partner handle situations where compromise is needed?


They try to find a solution that works for both of us
They’re willing to compromise, but only after some persuasion
They usually push for what they want without considering my side
They refuse to compromise and expect things to go their way
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