Do I Love Him Or The Idea Of Him Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 21463 | Updated: Oct 15, 2024
Do I Love Him or the Idea of Him Quiz

Falling in love can be an exhilarating experience, but it often brings with it a whirlwind of emotions that can be confusing. Have you ever paused to consider what exactly it is about your partner that draws you in? Are you genuinely in love with him, or are you enamored by the idea of who you want him to be?

Distinguishing between real love and infatuation is essential, as love requires a solid foundation of genuine connection. If your feelings are based more on fantasy than reality, it can lead to misunderstandings and disappointment down the line. Take this 'Do I love him or the idea of him' quiz to explore your emotions and gain clarity on your relationship.

Questions Excerpt

1. What do you like the most about him?

A. Everything

B. He is smart and cute

C. He is popular yet cares for me

2. How do you feel after spending time together?

A. I feel fulfilled and happy, wanting more time with him.

B. I sometimes feel drained or uncertain about our time together.

C. I often wish I had spent that time doing something else.

3. What does your gut instinct say about your relationship?

A. I feel deep down that we are meant to be together.

B. I have mixed feelings and don't know what to believe.

C. I feel that I could do better with someone else.

4. How do you handle conflicts or disagreements in your relationship?

A. We talk things through and come to a resolution together.

B. I often feel like I'm walking on eggshells around him.

C. I usually give in or avoid the conflict altogether.

5. When you think about the things you enjoy doing together, how do you feel?

A. I love doing everything with him; he makes it fun!

B. I enjoy some activities, but others feel forced.

C. I often prefer doing things on my own or with friends.

6. How do you feel when he talks about his future?

A. I feel excited and can't wait to be a part of it.

B. I feel a bit unsure about what my role will be

C. I find myself wishing he would talk about someone else.

7. Do you think you are in love with him?

A. Yes

B. Often

C. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t

8. Have you ever wondered about getting into a relationship and then breaking up?

A. Never, I only dream about lovey dovey times

B. Sometimes

C. I am not sure I want to think about it

9. Is he worth the effort and time?

A. Absolutely

B. I think so

C. I am not sure

10. Do you think about him a lot when you are alone?

A. Yes!

B. Sort of

C. I don’t know

11. Would you be happy spending the rest of your life with him?

A. I would be happy as long as he is by my side.

B. I’m not sure if he’s the right one to spend forever with.

C. I do not see him being my lifelong partner.

12. What sparked your initial interest in him?

A. He gave me attention when nobody else would.

B. He makes me smile and gives me butterflies.

C. He’s attractive but there’s not much beyond that.

13. What words best describe how he makes you feel?

A. Disappointed and let down.

B. Happy and at ease.

C. Annoyed and impatient.

14. Can you name three core qualities about him that you love most?

A. I can easily name a bunch of qualities that I love about him.

B. I guess I could name a few but I have to really think about it.

C. I can’t name anything that I genuinely love about him.

15. What do the people closest to you think of your relationship?

A. They think that we’re a great couple.

B. They think that I could do a lot better and they don’t understand why I’m still with him.

C. They are rather indifferent because they know I won’t take their advice.

16. Does he treat you the way you deserve to be treated?

A. He could treat me a lot better but I’m afraid I won’t be able to find anyone else.

B. He treats me with respect and compassion.

C. Sometimes he treats me well enough, other times he doesn’t.

17. Do you ever fantasize about being romantically involved with another person instead of him?

A. I constantly daydream about dating other people.

B. I am happy with my man and don’t envision myself with anyone else.

C. There are times when I feel like I deserve better but I always end up staying.

18. Are you excited by your sex life with him?

A. I don’t really enjoy sex with him anymore; it seems more like a chore than anything else.

B. Our sex life is always exciting and enjoyable.

C. I’m rather indifferent about sex with him at this point.

19. Would you rather be in a dead-end relationship or be alone and single?

A. I am scared of ending up alone and unhappy.

B. I don’t need a man to feel whole, I would rather be alone than unhappy.

C. I would try my best to keep making changes to make things work.

20. Does he accept you for who you are or do you find yourself changing to meet his standards?

A. Being with him has made me doubt myself and my abilities.

B. He loves and accepts me for who I am.

C. I have changed a few things about myself for him and I don’t want to live like that any longer.


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