Are You In An Abusive Relationship Quiz

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19 Questions | Total Attempts: 12574 | Updated: Oct 09, 2025
1. Does your partner use abusive language when you argue?

Yes, frequently, with shouting or insults
Sometimes, but only in heated arguments
No, they don’t use abusive language
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2. Do you feel like you have to hide aspects of your life (friends, opinions, achievements) from your partner to avoid conflict?

Yes, regularly.
Sometimes, depending on their mood.
No, I can be open about my life
3. Does your partner pressure you into sexual activity when you're not comfortable?

Yes, often.
Occasionally, but not regularly.
No, they respect my boundaries.
4. Does your partner make you feel guilty for spending time on hobbies, work, or personal interests?

Yes, almost always.
Sometimes, depending on the situation.
No, they support my personal interests.
5. Does your partner control how you spend your money or require you to justify every expense?

Yes, they strictly monitor or control my finances.
Sometimes, they question certain spending.
No, I have financial freedom.
6. Are you always extra-careful about your activities, speech, and behavior around them?

Yes, all the time
Sometimes, depending on their mood
No, I can be myself without worry
7. Does your partner insult or mimic you?

All the time
Sometimes
No
8. Is there a cycle where they become very affectionate after an outburst?

Yes, almost every time after an outburst
Occasionally, but not always
No, this does not happen
9. Do they try to convince you that no one else cares about you?

Yes, often—they tell me they are my only real support
Sometimes, they suggest this
No, I have supportive people around me
10. Do they always blame you for everything wrong happening with them?

Yes, almost all the time
Sometimes, especially when they’re upset
No, I have never experienced this
11. Do you fear your partner most of the time?

Yes, very often
Sometimes, depending on their mood
No, I have never felt afraid of them
12. Has your partner ever physically assaulted you?

Yes. More than once.
A few times.
Never.
13. Has your partner ever blamed you for them irrational behavior?

Absolutely, yes.
Not really.
Never.
14. Does your partner limit who you can see (friends, family, children)?

Most unfortunately, yes.
Sometimes
Never. I have my freedom.
15. Has your partner ever destroyed your belongings or property?

Yes, more than once
Once or rarely
No, never
16. Is your partner short-tempered, acting against your will because of something slightly upsetting?

Yes, and I see that side quite frequently.
Maybe once in a while.
Never. I have never seen that side of my partner.
17. Has your partner ever threatened to harm themselves if you were to ever think about leaving them?

Yes, seriously and more than once
Yes, but in a joking or manipulative way
Never
18. Does your partner constantly check up on you (asking who you're with, where you are, when you'll be home)?

Yes, regularly
Occasionally, but not all the time
No, they respect my independence
19. Does your partner ever belittle you or make you feel humiliated?

Yes, frequently
Occasionally, but not often
No, never
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