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Are You A Second Choice Quiz?

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 509 | Updated: Jun 27, 2023

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1. How often does this person cancel plans with you?

Frequently, often at the last minute Rarely or never, they respect our plans Occasionally, but they usually have a good reason

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Are You a Second Choice Quiz?

Feeling like you're someone's second choice can be deeply hurtful. If you're unsure about where you stand in someone's life, this 10-question Are you a second choice Quiz can offer some insights. This tool aims to help you better understand your situ...

Feeling like you're someone's second choice can be deeply hurtful. If you're unsure about where you stand in someone's life, this 10-question Are you a second choice Quiz can offer some insights. This tool aims to help you better understand your situation, but remember, the most crucial voice to listen to is your own. Let's dive in and explore the dynamics of your relationship.

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2. What first name or nickname would you like us to use?

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3. Do they make you feel valued and appreciated?

No, I often feel overlooked or taken for granted Yes, they consistently show me that I'm important to them Sometimes, but it's not consistent

4. How much effort do they put into your relationship?

It often feels one-sided, with me making most of the effort They put in as much effort as I do They make some effort, but I wish they would do more

5. How do they behave when you're not around?

They rarely mention me to others or acknowledge our relationship They talk about me positively and acknowledge our relationship I'm not sure, they seem to act differently when I'm not around

6. Are they there for you when you need emotional support?

No, I usually have to deal with things on my own Yes, they're always there when I need them Sometimes, but not always

7. When you're in a group setting, do they pay attention to you?

Rarely, they seem more interested in others Yes, they focus on me even when others are around Sometimes, it depends on the situation

8. How often do they go out of their way to make you feel special?

Almost never, I don't feel particularly valued Regularly, they often surprise me with thoughtful gestures Occasionally, but not as much as I'd like

9. Do they include you in their future plans?

No, they rarely discuss the future with me Yes, we often discuss and plan our future together Sometimes, but it's usually vague or uncertain

10. Do they prioritize their time with you?

No, I often feel like an afterthought Yes, they make sure to carve out quality time for us Sometimes, but I often wish they would give me more time

11. How do they react when you express your needs or concerns?

They often dismiss or minimize my feelings They listen and validate my feelings, even if they don't fully agree They sometimes listen, but other times they seem uninterested or dismissive

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