When your friend shares exciting news, how do you react?

I'm genuinely happy for them and show it.

I congratulate them but feel a bit jealous.

I change the subject to something about me.

How often do you check in on your friends when you know they're going through a tough time?

Regularly, I make sure to offer my support.

Occasionally, but I wait for them to reach out to me first.

Rarely, I assume they'll tell me if they need anything.

Your friend has made a mistake that has upset you. How do you handle it?

I talk to them about it directly and calmly.

I wait a while to cool off before mentioning it.

I hold a grudge and wait for an apology.

A friend needs help moving over the weekend. What's your response?

I offer to help without hesitation.

I'll help if I'm available and they ask me directly.

I make up an excuse to avoid helping.

Your friend is venting about a problem. What do you do?

Listen attentively and offer advice if they want it.

Listen, but my mind occasionally wanders.

Quickly steer the conversation towards my own problems.

How do you handle it when a friend outshines you in something you're both involved in?

I congratulate them and feel proud of their achievement.

I feel a bit overshadowed but try to be supportive.

I can't help feeling resentful and competitive.

Do you remember important details and dates related to your friends, like birthdays?

Yes, I make a note of them and celebrate these occasions.

Sometimes, but I might need a reminder.

I often forget these details unless reminded.

How do you react when you and a friend have a disagreement?

I try to understand their perspective and find a compromise.

I can be defensive but will eventually try to resolve it.

I often insist I'm right until they agree with me.

Your friend is excited about a new hobby they've picked up, but you're not interested in it. What do you do?

Show interest and ask them to tell you more about it.

Listen, but don't engage much beyond basic questions.

Change the subject to something that interests you more.

A friend confides in you with a secret. How do you handle it?

Keep it to myself, respecting their trust.

Might share it with someone else if I think it's harmless.

I find it hard to keep secrets and might slip up.

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 402 | Updated: Apr 11, 2024

Friendships enrich our lives, offering laughter, support, and companionship. Yet, we often go through life without pausing to consider the kind of friend we are. Are we the rock that others can lean on, the light that brightens their day, or do we sometimes miss the mark, letting distractions or self-interest get in the way? This quiz is your chance to reflect on your friendship qualities. Through a series of insightful questions, find out if you're the great friend you hope to be or if there's room for growth.