Are We In A Relationship Or Just Dating Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 10002 | Updated: Sep 15, 2025
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Are We in a Relationship or Just Dating Quiz

Feeling uncertain about whether you're just dating or in a relationship can be pretty common. You might find yourself questioning where things stand, especially if you haven't had a clear conversation about it with your partner.

It's possible to have strong feelings and a commitment to seeing each other. However, you still wonder if your partner shares the same sentiments. If you're looking to gain some clarity on your situation, taking this "Are we in a relationship or just dating?" quiz might offer some insights.

Questions Excerpt

1. How long have you been seeing this person?

A. A couple of weeks

B. A month

C. A couple of months

D. More than 3 months

2. How often do you spend time together?

A. Usually once a week

B. A couple of times a week

C. Several times a week

D. Pretty much every day

3. Are you seeing anyone else, or are you still active on dating sites?

A. Yes, I’m still dating others

B. Not really, I’m mostly focused on this person

C. No, I’m only seeing them (but unsure about their status)

D. No, we’re both only seeing each other

4. Have you talked about the future?

A. Not really

B. Yes, but only in general terms (not about us specifically)

C. Yes, but mostly in a “what if” or hypothetical way

D. Yes, we talk clearly about our future together

5. Have you spent time getting to know them on a more intimate and emotional level?

A. Not too much

B. Somewhat

C. Yes, we have done that numerous times

D. Yes, I feel a deep, intimate, and emotional connection with them

6. Have you met their friends and family members?

A. No, not yet

B. I’ve only met a few friends

C. I’ve met their friends and maybe a family member or two

D. Yes, I’ve met both their friends and family

7. Do you include this person in your social life?

A. Not really, we mostly spend time just the two of us

B. Sometimes, but only in casual or group settings

C. Yes, I often bring them along when I meet friends or family

D. Yes, they’re fully part of my social circle and join most gatherings

8. Do you share the same goals, values, and dreams for your future?

A. I am not sure

B. I think so, but there are still things we haven't talked about

C. Yes, I feel that we do.

D. Yes, we certainly do!

9. Do you feel like you can be open and honest with this person and feel comfortable and vice versa?

A. I’m not sure yet

B. I can be open about some things, but not everything

C. I feel comfortable sharing a lot, and they’re beginning to do the same

D. We’re both open and honest, which has created a deep emotional connection

10. Do they call you their boyfriend/girlfriend?

A. No

B. Not yet, they usually just use pet names

C. Not directly, but I’ve started calling them that

D. Yes, they do

11. How do you both handle disagreements or conflicts?

A. We haven’t had a disagreement yet

B. Minor disagreements happen, but we usually move past them quickly

C. We try to talk through conflicts, though it can be challenging

D. We openly discuss disagreements and see them as opportunities to grow

12. How does this person affect your personal growth and self-improvement?

A. I haven’t thought much about this yet

B. They motivate me a little to pursue my goals

C. They encourage me to grow, even if it’s not always perfect

D. We actively support each other’s growth and celebrate achievements together

13. How do you feel about the amount of time and space you have for yourself?

A. It's about the same as before we met; we're still very independent

B. I've noticed I have slightly less time for myself, but I'm okay with the balance

C. We spend a lot of time together, and I'm trying to find the right balance for personal space

D. We respect each other's need for personal space and time apart, understanding it's healthy for our relationship

14. How do you both handle life's stresses and challenges?

A. We haven’t faced anything stressful together yet

B. Small challenges come up, but we usually handle them on our own

C. We’ve started leaning on each other during tough times

D. We face challenges as a team and support each other through them

15. How do you celebrate each other's successes?

A. We haven’t had many chances to celebrate yet

B. We usually just acknowledge each other’s successes briefly

C. We make an effort to celebrate, sometimes with small gestures

D. We celebrate successes together and treat each other’s victories as our own


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