Am I Ready To Divorce My Husband Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 1815 | Updated: Sep 12, 2024
Am I Ready to Divorce My Husband Quiz

Deciding if and when you should file for divorce can be a very confusing and challenging time. If you are still holding out hope that things could work themselves out and you are not ready to file for divorce yet, it could be even more confusing. 

So, have you been mulling over, “Am I ready to divorce my husband?” If yes, take this quiz and get your answer!

Note: This quiz is for informational purposes only, and not a substitute for professional advice. We encourage quiz takers to seek professional counseling or legal advice before making decisions about divorce.

Questions Excerpt

1. Have thoughts of being with someone else crossed your mind during your marriage struggles?

A. Yes, for sure

B. Yes, kind of

C. I’m not sure

D. No, not really

2. If you could describe your marriage last year, what word would you use?

A. Fulfilling

B. Challenging

C. Tumultuous

D. Distant

3. How do you and your husband handle conflicts?

A. We resolve them constructively most of the time

B. We manage to resolve small issues, but not the bigger ones

C. We rarely resolve conflicts without escalation

D. We avoid conflicts, and unresolved issues are piling up

4. What's your support system like regarding a potential divorce?

A. Strong support from family and friends for whatever decision I make

B. Mixed reactions, but mostly supportive

C. Not much support, most are against divorce

D. I haven’t discussed it with anyone yet

5. How often do you find yourself thinking about a life without your husband?

A. Never, I'm focused on making it work

B. Occasionally, when we have serious conflicts

C. Frequently, it's a recurring thought

D. All the time, it feels more like a relief

6. How do you feel about your future with your husband?

A. Optimistic and hopeful for improvement

B. Uncertain but willing to try counseling

C. Indifferent and disconnected

D. Hopeless and ready to move on

7. What is your general belief about the nature of marriage?

A. Yes, I think marriages are suffocating and unnatural

B. I believe marriage goes through phases, some very challenging

C. My view on marriage is evolving

D. I believe in the potential for growth and happiness in marriage

8. Do you talk to your friends about the problems in your marriage?

A. Yes, I can’t help it

B. Yes, sometimes

C. Only when it is something important or necessary

D. Not really. I try to keep things private

9. How do you feel about your wedding day now?

A. It is one of my happiest memories

B. It was happy, but my feelings have change over time

C. I’m not sure how I feel about it anymore

D. It no longer holds the same positive emotions for me

10. Do you find yourself comparing your marital situation to that of other couples?

A. Yes, all the time

B. Yes, sometimes

C. It’s complicated because some days are harder than others

D. Not really. I'm trying to focus on my own situation rather than comparing

11. Have you and your spouse discussed the state of your marriage openly?

A. Not that I am aware of

B. Sometimes we discuss the issues

C. We occasionally express our concerns about our marriage’s future

D. Both of us have openly expressed fears that our marriage might be ending

12. Are you emotionally prepared to handle all the messy aspects of divorce?

A. I am definitely not at peace with it and not ready for the drastic changes divorce would bring

B. I feel overwhelmed and confused about the process

C. I am at peace with my decision but worried about the process

D. I am prepared to handle everything that comes with divorce

13. How serious are your considerations about divorce?

A. I think it is just based on negative emotions right now

B. I use the idea of divorce to prompt a change in our relationship

C. I have spoken about divorce more seriously, though I have not fully decided

D. I have prepared myself and earnestly consider divorce as the only option

14. How often do you find yourself thinking about divorce as a solution to your marital problems?

A. Occasionally, but I am still hopeful we can resolve things

B. Often, it seems like a possibility to relieve ongoing distress

C. Regularly, and it might be the only solution left

D. All the time, and I feel I am ready to take that step

15. Do you and your husband have a true partnership and unified marriage?

A. Yes, I believe we do

B. We do sometimes

C. We are more like two individuals living together and meeting our own needs

D. No, we have never been truly unified as a couple

16. Do you still have feelings for your husband?

A. Yes, and I believe it is mutual

B. Yes, but I don’t know about his feelings

C. My feelings have changed and I don’t think he feels the same anymore

D. Neither of us has feelings for the other anymore

17. How do you currently feel about your marriage?

A. I really don’t want a divorce; I hope we can work things out

B. I‘m unsure about what I want

C. I want to file for divorce, but I am not sure if I am making the right decision

D. We both know our differences are irreconcilable

18. Have you sought professional help for your marriage issues?

A. We are actively attending marriage counseling

B. We both have our own therapists

C. We haven’t tried therapy but are open to it

D. We tried counseling, but it didn’t seem to help

19. Do you feel like you and your spouse understand each other’s perspectives on the marriage?

A. We both still want to work on making things better

B. Sometimes, we feel we understand each other

C. We are rarely on the same page

D. I think we both accept that our relationship may be over

20. Have either of you taken any legal steps towards divorce?

A. Neither of us has contacted an attorney

B. We’ve both mentioned possibly contacting attorneys

C. One of us has consulted an attorney

D. Both of us have hired attorneys


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