Am I Ready To Divorce My Husband Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 2488 | Updated: Sep 12, 2024
1. Have thoughts of being with someone else crossed your mind during your marriage struggles?

Yes, for sure
Yes, kind of
I’m not sure
No, not really
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2. If you could describe your marriage last year, what word would you use?

Fulfilling
Challenging
Tumultuous
Distant
3. How do you and your husband handle conflicts?

We resolve them constructively most of the time
We manage to resolve small issues, but not the bigger ones
We rarely resolve conflicts without escalation
We avoid conflicts, and unresolved issues are piling up
4. What's your support system like regarding a potential divorce?

Strong support from family and friends for whatever decision I make
Mixed reactions, but mostly supportive
Not much support, most are against divorce
I haven’t discussed it with anyone yet
5. How often do you find yourself thinking about a life without your husband?

Never, I'm focused on making it work
Occasionally, when we have serious conflicts
Frequently, it's a recurring thought
All the time, it feels more like a relief
6. How do you feel about your future with your husband?

Optimistic and hopeful for improvement
Uncertain but willing to try counseling
Indifferent and disconnected
Hopeless and ready to move on
7. What is your general belief about the nature of marriage?

Yes, I think marriages are suffocating and unnatural
I believe marriage goes through phases, some very challenging
My view on marriage is evolving
I believe in the potential for growth and happiness in marriage
8. Do you talk to your friends about the problems in your marriage?

Yes, I can’t help it
Yes, sometimes
Only when it is something important or necessary
Not really. I try to keep things private
9. How do you feel about your wedding day now?

It is one of my happiest memories
It was happy, but my feelings have change over time
I’m not sure how I feel about it anymore
It no longer holds the same positive emotions for me
10. Do you find yourself comparing your marital situation to that of other couples?

Yes, all the time
Yes, sometimes
It’s complicated because some days are harder than others
Not really. I'm trying to focus on my own situation rather than comparing
11. Have you and your spouse discussed the state of your marriage openly?

Not that I am aware of
Sometimes we discuss the issues
We occasionally express our concerns about our marriage’s future
Both of us have openly expressed fears that our marriage might be ending
12. Are you emotionally prepared to handle all the messy aspects of divorce?

I am definitely not at peace with it and not ready for the drastic changes divorce would bring
I feel overwhelmed and confused about the process
I am at peace with my decision but worried about the process
I am prepared to handle everything that comes with divorce
13. How serious are your considerations about divorce?

I think it is just based on negative emotions right now
I use the idea of divorce to prompt a change in our relationship
I have spoken about divorce more seriously, though I have not fully decided
I have prepared myself and earnestly consider divorce as the only option
14. How often do you find yourself thinking about divorce as a solution to your marital problems?

Occasionally, but I am still hopeful we can resolve things
Often, it seems like a possibility to relieve ongoing distress
Regularly, and it might be the only solution left
All the time, and I feel I am ready to take that step
15. Do you and your husband have a true partnership and unified marriage?

Yes, I believe we do
We do sometimes
We are more like two individuals living together and meeting our own needs
No, we have never been truly unified as a couple
16. Do you still have feelings for your husband?

Yes, and I believe it is mutual
Yes, but I don’t know about his feelings
My feelings have changed and I don’t think he feels the same anymore
Neither of us has feelings for the other anymore
17. How do you currently feel about your marriage?

I really don’t want a divorce; I hope we can work things out
I‘m unsure about what I want
I want to file for divorce, but I am not sure if I am making the right decision
We both know our differences are irreconcilable
18. Have you sought professional help for your marriage issues?

We are actively attending marriage counseling
We both have our own therapists
We haven’t tried therapy but are open to it
We tried counseling, but it didn’t seem to help
19. Do you feel like you and your spouse understand each other’s perspectives on the marriage?

We both still want to work on making things better
Sometimes, we feel we understand each other
We are rarely on the same page
I think we both accept that our relationship may be over
20. Have either of you taken any legal steps towards divorce?

Neither of us has contacted an attorney
We’ve both mentioned possibly contacting attorneys
One of us has consulted an attorney
Both of us have hired attorneys
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