Am I Dating A Covert Narcissist Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 3197 | Updated: Dec 13, 2024
1. How does your partner react when you achieve success or recognition?

They genuinely celebrate your accomplishments and feel proud of your achievements
They acknowledge your success but quickly shift the focus back to themselves or their achievements
They downplay your success or express jealousy, making it about their struggles and hardships
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Am I Dating a Covert Narcissist Quiz
Have you ever found yourself questioning your partner's behavior, wondering if there’s more beneath the surface? Covert narcissism can be subtle and hard to spot, often hidden behind a facade of humility or sensitivity. Unlike overt narcissists... see more
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2. When you share your thoughts and feelings, how does your partner respond?

They actively listen, empathize, and offer support or comfort when needed
They sometimes listen, but their responses often center around their own experiences or feelings
They tend to dismiss or invalidate your emotions and redirect the conversation to their problems or concerns
3. How does your partner handle disagreements or conflicts in the relationship?

They engage in open, respectful communication and work together to find resolutions
They often become defensive or blame you, making it challenging to address issues constructively
They manipulate situations to make you feel guilty or responsible for any problems in the relationship
4. How does your partner behave toward your friends and family in social situations?

They show genuine interest and respect towards your loved ones, building positive relationships with them
They may be polite but often express impatience or disinterest in spending time with your friends and family
They attempt to isolate you from your support system, portraying your loved ones negatively to keep you emotionally dependent on them
5. How does your partner react when you need emotional support during a difficult time?

They provide comfort, empathy, and assistance without making it about them
They offer support but may subtly steer the conversation back to their problems or challenges
They may downplay your difficulties and make you feel as though their issues are more significant
6. How does your partner handle criticism or feedback from you?

They listen, reflect, and consider your perspective, working together to make improvements
They may become defensive or counter with criticisms of their own, making it challenging to address concerns
They react with anger, denial, or emotional manipulation when you provide feedback
7. Does your partner often make grandiose claims about themselves or their accomplishments?

No, they tend to be humble and modest in their self-assessment
Occasionally, they may mention their achievements, but it's not excessive
Yes, they frequently make exaggerated claims about their accomplishments and talents
8. How does your partner respond when you need some time alone or space for self-care?

They respect your need for solitude and encourage you to take care of yourself
They may express a bit of insecurity but eventually accept your need for alone time
They become excessively clingy or angry when you seek solitude or independence
9. Does your partner often use guilt or emotional manipulation to get what they want in the relationship?

No, they generally communicate their needs and desires openly without resorting to manipulation
Occasionally, they may use guilt tactics, but it's not a dominant pattern in the relationship
Yes, they frequently employ guilt and manipulation to control your actions and decisions
10. How does your partner react when you achieve success or recognition?

They genuinely celebrate your accomplishments and feel proud of your achievements
They acknowledge your success but quickly shift the focus back to themselves or their achievements
They downplay your success or express jealousy, making it about their struggles and hardships
11. How does your partner respond to your personal growth or self-improvement?

They encourage and support your growth, recognizing that it strengthens the relationship
They may show mild disinterest but still acknowledge your efforts
They feel threatened by your growth and try to undermine your progress
12. How does your partner handle praise or compliments?

They receive compliments with gratitude and humbleness
They accept praise but sometimes seem uncomfortable or deflect it
They expect compliments regularly and act entitled to them
13. When you express your needs or desires, how does your partner react?

They listen and make an effort to meet your needs in a balanced and respectful way
They acknowledge your needs but often prioritize their own, making it difficult to find a balance
They dismiss or ignore your needs, focusing only on their own desires
14. How does your partner react when you talk about your future together?

They share your vision and make plans with excitement and commitment
They express some hesitancy or vagueness about the future, but they don’t completely shut it down
They avoid discussing the future or make it clear they aren’t committed to long-term plans
15. How does your partner treat you after you’ve expressed dissatisfaction in the relationship?

They genuinely want to resolve the issue and make things better
They may get defensive but are willing to discuss and work through the issue
They try to manipulate the situation to make you feel guilty or responsible for the problem
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