Am I Controlling In My Relationship Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 7262 | Updated: Nov 20, 2024
Am I Controlling in My Relationship Quiz

Controlling behavior in relationships can be subtle and often goes unnoticed until it starts to take a toll. If you find yourself making decisions for your partner, dictating their actions, or isolating them from their friends and family, these might be signs of controlling behavior.

While it’s easy to overlook these tendencies, they can lead to serious issues in the relationship if left unchecked. Are you unintentionally crossing boundaries or dominating your partner’s choices? Take this "Am I Controlling in My Relationship Quiz" to gain insight into your actions and understand if they may be affecting the balance in your relationship.

Questions Excerpt

1. Do you interfere with your partner’s external relationships?

A. Of course

B. Never

C. Rarely

2. Do you ask too many questions?

A. All the time

B. Sometimes

C. Not all the time

3. Do you always go through your partner’s phone or social media accounts?

A. Not all the time but once in a while

B. All the time

C. I don't do it at all

4. Do you always call or text to monitor your partner’s movement?

A. Yes, I just feel it’s necessary

B. No, I make sure I don’t overdo it

C. Most times

5. Do you dictate what your partner does?

A. Yes

B. Not at all

C. Sometimes

6. Are you isolating your partner from her friends and families?

A. No, why should I do such a thing?

B. Absolutely

C. Sometimes

7. Do you always want your partner’s focus on you?

A. All the time

B. No

C. On occasion

8. Do you always want your partner to be around you?

A. Not all the time

B. Yes

C. Never

9. Are you the only one that makes decisions in the relationship?

A. Sometimes

B. All the times

C. Never

10. Do you always criticize everything your partner does?

A. Yes, but that’s necessary for them to take the right decision

B. Sometimes

C. Never

11. Do you get upset if your partner spends time without you?

A. Yes, I feel left out

B. No, I encourage them to enjoy time alone

C. Sometimes, I wish they would spend more time with me

12. Do you feel the need to decide what your partner wears?

A. Yes, I think I know what looks best on them

B. No, I trust their choices

C. Sometimes, I give my opinion on their outfits

13. Do you get annoyed if your partner talks to people you don’t like?

A. Yes, I don’t want them to interact with certain people

B. No, I trust them to make their own choices

C. Sometimes, I get uneasy but I let them handle it

14. Do you expect your partner to cancel plans to spend time with you?

A. Yes, I think it’s important to be with me

B. No, I understand if they have other commitments

C. Sometimes, I wish they would choose me over others

15. Do you often raise your voice or get angry when your partner disagrees with you?

A. Yes, I feel my opinion should be the final one

B. No, I prefer to discuss things calmly

C. Sometimes, I get frustrated but try to control my reactions


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