Am I Abusive To My Partner Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 23552 | Updated: Jun 23, 2025
1. Do you often find yourself being highly critical of your partner?

Sometimes
No
Yes
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Am I Abusive to My Partner Quiz
Have you ever stopped to wonder: Could I be unintentionally hurting my partner? Sometimes, behaviors that seem harmless to us might be damaging to someone else. This quiz is designed to help you reflect on your actions and identify patterns that coul... see more
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2. Do you feel like your partner owes you affection, intimacy, or certain behaviors because you are in a relationship?

Yes, often
No
Occasionally
3. Do you dismiss your partner’s feelings by telling them they are overreacting or being too sensitive?

Yes, often
No
Occasionally
4. Have you ever made your partner feel guilty for wanting time alone or pursuing their own interests?

Yes, often
No
Occasionally
5. Do you get upset when your partner spends time with friends, family, or others without you?

Yes, often
No
Occasionally
6. Do you ever give your partner the silent treatment to punish or control them?

Yes, often
No
Occasionally
7. Do you often feel like your partner does not do things the right way?

Sometimes
No
Yes
8. Have you ever spoken to your partner in a way that was belittling or unkind?

Sometimes
No
Yes
9. Do you tend to blame your partner when things do not go as planned?

Sometimes
No
Yes
10. Do you behave differently in public than when you are alone with your partner?

Sometimes
No
Yes
11. Has your partner or someone else ever expressed concern about how you treat your partner?

Yes, plenty of times
No
Only once or twice
12. Have you ever intentionally said hurtful things to your partner during disagreements?

Yes, plenty of times
No
Only once or twice
13. Do you think your partner ever feels intimidated or uneasy around you?

Yes
No
Sometimes
14. Do you believe that raising your voice, being highly critical, or using harsh words is acceptable when you are upset with your partner?

Yes
No
Sometimes
15. Do you feel it is important to always know who your partner is talking to, where they are, and what they are doing?

Yes
No
Sometimes
16. Have you ever damaged your partner's belongings during an argument or disagreement?

Yes, plenty of times
No
Only once or twice
17. Do you frequently call or text your partner persistently if they are not where you expect them to be or are not responding?

Yes, plenty of times
No
Only once or twice
18. Have you ever engaged in physical actions during conflicts with your partner, such as hitting, pushing, or grabbing?

Yes, plenty of times
No
Only once or twice
19. Have you ever made threats of harm toward your partner?

Yes, plenty of times
No
Only once or twice
20. Have any of your past partners or someone else ever mentioned concerns about your behavior in previous relationships?

Yes, plenty of times
No
Only once or twice
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