Am I A Good Lover Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 699 | Updated: Jun 20, 2025
1. Do you make sure to always set aside time for sex in your relationship?

Not really. We are frequently just too busy or too tired or not in the mood.
Sometimes, but not always
Yes, we do
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Am I a Good Lover Quiz
How do you know if you are a good lover? What exactly makes up a good lover? Are you able to satisfy your partner's needs? These are all questions that come up frequently, whether you are in a relationship, looking for a relationship, or trying to fi... see more
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2. Do you have fun when you are being intimate with your partner?

I don’t know; it is just sex
I am sure my partner has fun. I aim to please
Yes, we are very playful and passionate about sex
3. Do you enjoy giving pleasure as much as you enjoy receiving it?

I would prefer receiving it, but that rarely happens
Sometimes, but I would rather give pleasure than worry about my own pleasure
Yes, definitely
4. Do you and your partner open up to each other and communicate your sexual needs openly?

No
Sometimes
Yes
5. Are you confident in your lovemaking abilities?

Not really
Most of the time
Yes
6. Are you emotionally connected during sex and willing to allow yourself to be vulnerable?

I don’t really know
Sometimes
Yes
7. Are you open to trying new things and being adventurous in the bedroom?

It depends but I’m not really into being adventurous in the bedroom
Most of the time, but there are certain things I won’t try
Yes, I like to keep things fresh and interesting so it is not always the same
8. Do you feel like you make your partner feel sexy?

No/I am not sure
Sometimes
Yes
9. Are you fully present during sex with your partner?

I am not sure
Sometimes, but it is hard sometimes when I am doing it because I feel obligated
Yes
10. Are you non-judgmental towards your partner's sexual desires and performance?

I have made negative comments in the past or been judgmental when I shouldn’t have
I think so, but my partner has not really talked about or done anything out of the ordinary
Yes, I think so
11. Can your partner tell you what they are uncomfortable with doing during sex?

I'm not sure
Sometimes
Yes, for sure
12. Can you sense your partner’s mood by the way they approach sex?

Not really
At times
For sure
13. Are you open to learning new things when it comes to sex?

Not really
At times
For sure
14. Do you let your guard down emotionally in front of your partner?

Not really
At times
For sure
15. Do you communicate when something does not work for you sexually?

Not really
At times
For sure
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