6 Things That Happen When You Stop Chasing an Avoidant

They may notice and reconsider their distancing.

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You regain control and self-respect.

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Space allows both to reflect on the relationship.

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Your emotional well-being starts to improve.

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They might initiate more contact.

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Opens the possibility for a healthier dynamic.

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