6 Signs He’s Playing You and How to Respond Effectively

He's inconsistent and unpredictable. Stay calm, seek clarity.

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He only contacts you on his terms. Set your boundaries.

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He avoids defining the relationship. Ask for clear commitments.

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He keeps you hidden from his life. Demand transparency.

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He ignores your needs but meets his. Prioritize mutual respect.

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He's overly charming but superficial. Trust actions, not words.

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