How to Stop Your Husband from Yelling at You: 6 Effective Ways

Use a soft voice to reply during heated moments, setting a peaceful tone

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Say 'I see this really upsets you,' to acknowledge his emotions and lower defenses

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Tell him calmly, 'Yelling hurts me; please speak softly,' right when tension rises

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Suggest a break with, 'Let’s pause for 20 minutes and then talk calmly

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Repeat his concerns back to him to show understanding and de-escalate yelling

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If yelling persists, propose couples therapy: 'Should we find someone to help us communicate better?

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