6 Assertive Ways to Turn the Tables on a Gaslighter

Recognize the gaslighting: Trust your feelings and perceptions.

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Keep evidence: Document interactions to counter denial.

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Set firm boundaries: Clearly communicate your limits.

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Stay connected with supportive people: Don’t isolate.

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Seek professional help: Gain perspective and strength.

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Exit the situation if necessary: Prioritize your safety.

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