Wedding Ceremony Script: Samples and Tips on How to Write

If you’re about to get married, one of the challenges you might face is having the right wedding ceremony script. Sometimes, it can be difficult to write one, especially if you’re doing this for the first time.

In this article, you will learn how to write a simple wedding ceremony script that will make your event memorable. Additionally, with some of the wedding ceremony script ideas in this piece, you can craft some of them to your taste.

To learn how your wedding script and other important features of a wedding affects a wedding ceremony, check out this study by Karen Sue Rudd. The study is titled Expected Happiness Love, and Longevity of Marriage. 

How do you start a wedding script?

When you want to start a wedding ceremony script, you and your partner need to decide on how you want your ceremony to be. You can model your script after different wedding scripts for officiants. 

You may also consider hiring a professional officiant to write your wedding ceremony script. All you might need to do is relay your ideas to the officiant, and they can provide different wedding ceremony templates or samples for you to choose your preference.

One of the important elements of a wedding ceremony script is the vows. In this study by Tiffany Diane Wagner titled Till Death Do Us Part, you will learn more about marital outcomes and rituals using America as a case study. 

How do you write an awesome wedding script- tips

When writing a wedding ceremony script, some elements that should be included are processional, welcome speech, couples charge, exchange of vows and rings, pronouncement, and declaration. Also, in your officiant script for the wedding, you might consider some of these elements: acknowledgment of family, declaration of intent, wedding readings, etc.

Best wedding ceremony script ideas

As your wedding approaches, the wedding ceremony script is one of the important aspects to look into. The essence of a wedding ceremony script is to know how your wedding proceedings will go from start to finish.

With a wedding script, you can plan how much time you will spend on the wedding to pave the way for other activities. Some common marriage ceremony script ideas can be categorized into traditional and modern wedding ceremony scripts.

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Traditional wedding ceremony

Here are some traditional wedding ceremony script samples that can help you write one of yours.

1st sample

Welcome statement

The Officiant welcomes the congregation

Welcome, dear family, friends, and all loved ones of the couple. We are gathered here today in the sight of God and you all to celebrate the marriage joining ceremony of A and B. We officially present A and B to each other in the presence of their loved ones as they begin this journey to spend the rest of their happy lives together.

Declaration of intent

The officiant leads the couples to take vows that highlight their commitments to each other.

I, A, do take you B to be my lawfully wedded partner from this day- to have and to hold, in good times and bad, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health. I will love, cherish and honor you for as long as I live.

Rings/Vows Exchange

The officiant leads the couples to seal their vows with the wedding rings

With this ring, I wed thee. I promise to honor, love and cherish you in sickness and health until death do us part.

Pronouncement

The officiant pronounces the couple as partners or spouses

Having restated your commitment and love to each other in the presence of Almighty God and the witnesses. With the power vested in me, I hereby declare you spouses. You may kiss each other.

The officiant presents the couple to the congregation.

Family, friends, ladies, and gentlemen. Behold the latest couple in the universe.

2nd sample

Processional

(Everyone is on their feet while the couple walks hand-in-hand to the front of the hall where the priest or officiant is waiting for them.)

Invocation

Dearly beloved, we are here today in the presence of God and loved ones to witness the solemnization of Holy Matrimony between A and B. Marriage is a sacred covenant that must be treated with reverence, discretion, and mutual respect. 

We are joyous today as these two are ready to embrace one of the greatest gifts of mankind, which is having a partner to build a family and grow old with.

Heavenly Father, we pray that you bless this couple and guide them as this holy marriage bond is created. Lead them with love and patience as they walk together.

Declaration of intent

The officiant tells the intending couples to declare their intentions to be joined in the Holy matrimony of marriage. The couples take turns stating their intentions as guided by the officiant.

Officiant to the first partner

[Name], Have you considered that getting married to [Name} is the right choice for you to make?

(The first partner replies: I have)

The officiant continues

Do you take [Name] to be your officially wedded partner? To love, comfort, honor, and keep them, in sickness and health, forsaking everyone as long as the both of you shall live?

(The first partner replies: I do)

Officiant to the second partner

[Name], Have you considered that getting married to [Name} is the right choice for you to make?

(The second partner replies: I have)

Do you take [Name] to be your officially wedded partner? To love, comfort, honor, and keep them, in sickness and health, forsaking everyone as long as the both of you shall live?

(The second partner replies: I do)

Vows and rings exchange

The officiant speaks to the congregation, informing them that their vows and exchange signify their commitment and devotion to each other. Then, the officiant turns to them and directs them to take turns putting the rings on each other’s fingers.

Pronouncement of marriage

Ladies and gentlemen, with the power invested in me, it is my honor to introduce to you the newlyweds [Mentions the names of the couple]

Recession

(The couple walks out of the ceremony, followed by the officiants, parents, family, friends, and other well-wishers in the congregation)

Related Reading: Modern Marriage Vows Vs. Traditional Vows

3rd sample

Processional

(Everyone is on their feet while the couple walks hand-in-hand to the front of the hall where the priest or officiant is waiting for them.)

Welcome speech

The priest speaks to the congregation

Dear relatives and friends, today we are here at the invitation of the couple to share in the joy of their marriage ceremony. We are here to witness the joining together of [Name] & [Name} in the presence of God and man.

The priest faces the couple to give a short charge on the marriage.

The marriage ceremony is one of the oldest ceremonies in the world, which was first celebrated by our creator. Getting married is one of the best gifts because you experience life better with the person your heart and mind have chosen. Marriage is beyond the seal on your certificate; it is the amalgamation of two lives, journeys, and hearts.

The priest then makes the necessary preparations for the wedding vows to be taken.

The priest faces the first partner.

Please repeat after me; I take you to be my lawfully wedded spouse, to have and to hold, from this day onwards, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health. I promise to love and cherish you till death do us part.

The first partner repeats after the priest

The priest faces the second partner

Please repeat after me; I take you to be my lawfully wedded spouse, to have and to hold, from this day onwards, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health. I promise to love and cherish you till death do us part.

The second partner repeats after the priest.

The priest then asks for the ring from the first partner

Please repeat after me, with this ring, I wed you and seal my promise to be your faithful and loving spouse in the presence of God and our loved ones.

The priest asks for the ring from the second partner

Please repeat after me, with this ring, I wed you and seal my promise to be your faithful and loving spouse in the presence of God and our loved ones.

Pronouncement

The priest faces the congregation; it is my honor to introduce to you [Title-Name] and [Title-Name].

Modern wedding ceremony

Here are some modern wedding ceremony script examples to guide you through a perfect script for your wedding.

1st sample

Welcome speech

The registrar in charge of the wedding speaks to everyone

Good day ladies and gentlemen, friends and family of the couple. My name is [Name], and I welcome you to this ceremony. It means a lot to the couple that you are here to share in their joy and witness the exchange of their marriage vows.

Therefore, if anyone doesn’t want this marriage to hold, please declare your intent before we move on.

The registrar faces the first partner and speaks:

Please repeat after me, I [Name], take you [Name] to be my wedded spouse. I promise to be loving and loyal to you for as long as we live.

The registrar faces the second partner and speaks:

Please repeat after me, I [Name], take you [Name] to be my wedded spouse. I promise to be loving and loyal to you for as long as we live.

Exchange of rings

The registrar requests the wedding rings and faces the first partner

Please repeat after me, I [Name], offer you this ring as a sign of my love and faithfulness to you. May you always be reminded of my devotion to you.

The registrar faces the second partner and speaks:

Please repeat after me, I [Name], offer you this ring as a sign of my love and faithfulness to you. May you always be reminded of my devotion to you.

Declaration of marriage

The registrar speaks to the couple:

Having made declarations of your love and commitment to each other in the presence of the witnesses and the law, it gives me the utmost pleasure to pronounce you as spouses. Congratulations! You may kiss each other.

2nd sample

Welcome

The officiant begins by welcoming everyone at the reception:

Good day, everyone. We would love to thank everyone for coming around on this beautiful day to support [Name] and [Name] as they tie this nuptial knot. Your support and love are one of the reasons why they have been able to get to this point.

Vows exchange

The officiant speaks to the couple:

You may exchange your vows

Partner A speaks to Partner B: I am glad I’m getting married to my best friend, who would literally burn down the world to save me. I’m in awe of your selfless love, kindness, and never-relenting desire to keep supporting me. Knowing you is a privilege, and I am beyond convinced we were made for each other. I vow to always support you in the good and dark times. I vow to love you unconditionally.

Partner B speaks to Partner A: You’ve not given me a reason to doubt your love for me. Spending the rest of my life with you is one of my biggest dreams, and I cannot wait to get this journey started. I look forward to creating beautiful memories with you, and I know that I will cherish every minute. I promise to be loving and loyal to you.

The officiant who is holding the rings proceeds to take the ring and exchange vows.

The officiant speaks to the first partner.

Please repeat after me, may this ring serve as a reminder of the love that binds us. Let it be a sign of my love and commitment to you.

The officiant speaks to the second partner.

Please repeat after me, may this ring serve as a reminder of the love that binds us. Let it be a sign of my love and commitment to you.

Proclamation of marriage

The officiant speaks to the congregation

With the authority vested in me, I joyfully pronounce [Name] and [Name] as spouses. You may kiss each other.

Related Reading: 9 Popular Marital Vows in the Bible

More about wedding ceremony scripts

Here is the most asked question related to marriage ceremony scripts.

• What is the order of wedding scripts?

When it comes to how a wedding ceremony script should look, it can come in different forms. A wedding officiant script can begin with a procession and end with a closing prayer.

Also, an officiant wedding script might begin with the prayers from the priest or officiant and end with an exchange of vows and a declaration of marriage. 

Therefore, when choosing a wedding ceremony script, it is best to work with a wedding vows script that will be convenient for you and your partner.

If you’re at a loss on where to begin when choosing a tradition for how your wedding will go from the vows to the right script, then this book by Carley Roney is for you. The book is titled The Knot Guide to Wedding Vows and Traditions. 

Final thought

Having read this article on how a wedding ceremony script should look like, the wedding script samples should guide you on how to write yours. It is important to mention that there is no one-size-fits-all when it comes to how a modern wedding ceremony script or traditional wedding ceremony script should look like. 

While you learn how to craft the perfect wedding ceremony script for your upcoming ceremony, consider going for couples therapy or marital counseling for top-notch marriage advice.